So my whole relationship with my SO is ruined.
My SO was planning on coming over to visit 40 days from now (December 21st) for Christmas, and he booked his flights about a month ago now, and then today I got into an argument with my mum and she decided that as my 'punishment' she isn't going to allow my SO to come and visit.
She decided to send a message to my SO's mum informing her of her decision. This then led to my SO's mum saying that she wants my SO to cancel his flights, losing around £300, and that she is never allowing him to come over and stay at my house again.
This means that if ever I want to see my SO again then I have to go and visit him, but I can't, because she's not going to let me leave the country, and besides which, I can't afford that.
She's ruined everything for me, everything when I was younger and now my relationship. My SO is the one person who I love more than anything else in this entire world, without him everything is pointless and I don't know what to do.
I've tried talking to my dad, but he says that there is nothing that he can do - although I know that he can do tons of things, he just won't.
I don't really know what to do about this because I can't lose my SO, he means too much to me. I guess any advice would be great?
My SO was planning on coming over to visit 40 days from now (December 21st) for Christmas, and he booked his flights about a month ago now, and then today I got into an argument with my mum and she decided that as my 'punishment' she isn't going to allow my SO to come and visit.
She decided to send a message to my SO's mum informing her of her decision. This then led to my SO's mum saying that she wants my SO to cancel his flights, losing around £300, and that she is never allowing him to come over and stay at my house again.
This means that if ever I want to see my SO again then I have to go and visit him, but I can't, because she's not going to let me leave the country, and besides which, I can't afford that.
She's ruined everything for me, everything when I was younger and now my relationship. My SO is the one person who I love more than anything else in this entire world, without him everything is pointless and I don't know what to do.
I've tried talking to my dad, but he says that there is nothing that he can do - although I know that he can do tons of things, he just won't.
I don't really know what to do about this because I can't lose my SO, he means too much to me. I guess any advice would be great?
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