I decided to start this thread been "inspired" by one of the girls whom i know.She is a cute girl with totally kick-ass beautiful look and pretty nice temper.The point is she doesnt know at all how to handle a relationship.Some of you may think (which is totally true) that its not my business and I shouldnt be teaching other people as I have no right for it.However,I really wanna help some girls who have wrong beliefs and ideas about relationship.I didnt decide it only after watching my friend but also seeing almost all my female friends getting in a relationship and then simply falling out of it.I hope (and actually sure) that none of you girls are making mistakes as simple as that,however,i just wanna post it and who knows,maybe someone may find it useful
1. "I dont have to do anything,he MUST treat me like a princess"
My friend was dating that guy,really good one,he was around 25 and working.He took her home from university by car (after he had a tiring day at work),he took a break and went to her intraining place to bring her food (and he called her from the shop to ask what fruit or salad she wants) and he simply did really a lot.When I started asking what he received in return,she stared at me with eyes widely opened and with surprise asked "what you mean? why i have to do anything for him?"
I had to explain that serious relationship is between both people and not between one worshiping the other.Obviously a man needs a woman,and woman means a reasonable female who will be able to comfort him when he is down and warm him when he feels stressed and tired.
2."Oh you're out you say...Who is the bitch??"
Uncontrolled jealousy.Nothing more to add
3."You had tiring day at work? Well shut up and let me explain to you how you pissed me off by being late for 2 minutes!"
She didnt listen to him at all.She didnt care whether he has been working non-stop for 9 hours and then without break rushed to meet her,she was obsessed with her own self.Which resulted in pretty bad arguments
4.Final shot
After predictable break-up,she a.threatened b.begged c.pleaded. d.shouted
There was not even the slightest sign of reasonable talking to him and with every conversation he more and more ignored her.Which obviously is upsetting
Thanks for your time and sorry to make it a bit long.Hope none of you will think its an irrelevant topic and if so,i try take it down or sth
1. "I dont have to do anything,he MUST treat me like a princess"
My friend was dating that guy,really good one,he was around 25 and working.He took her home from university by car (after he had a tiring day at work),he took a break and went to her intraining place to bring her food (and he called her from the shop to ask what fruit or salad she wants) and he simply did really a lot.When I started asking what he received in return,she stared at me with eyes widely opened and with surprise asked "what you mean? why i have to do anything for him?"
I had to explain that serious relationship is between both people and not between one worshiping the other.Obviously a man needs a woman,and woman means a reasonable female who will be able to comfort him when he is down and warm him when he feels stressed and tired.
2."Oh you're out you say...Who is the bitch??"
Uncontrolled jealousy.Nothing more to add
3."You had tiring day at work? Well shut up and let me explain to you how you pissed me off by being late for 2 minutes!"
She didnt listen to him at all.She didnt care whether he has been working non-stop for 9 hours and then without break rushed to meet her,she was obsessed with her own self.Which resulted in pretty bad arguments
4.Final shot
After predictable break-up,she a.threatened b.begged c.pleaded. d.shouted
There was not even the slightest sign of reasonable talking to him and with every conversation he more and more ignored her.Which obviously is upsetting
Thanks for your time and sorry to make it a bit long.Hope none of you will think its an irrelevant topic and if so,i try take it down or sth
i just think this mistake is done mostly by either immature people or the ones who dont really love their partner.coz i believe if you love truly,it wud feel natural to change some negative points about urself in order to be happy together!
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