So, this morning one of Elina's family members passed away..
The funeral is right in the middle of the week she was meant to be here, so she can't come now, basically.
Has anyone else been through this?
I guess its one part of a LDR I never really thought about.
I'm not there with her.
I cant hug her.
I cant make her feel any better..
I cant.. do anything. I feel so.. useless and helpless O_o
This sucks..
In the bigger picture, it's more important that she's at the funeral and stuff. There's more important things in her life than me.. but I'm allowed to be upset I wont see her too, right?
So yeah, how has anyone else dealt with this? What can I do? I'm 1000+ miles away and able to do nothing to/for the person I should be there for.
Kinda feel like I'm a failure to her or something
Yeah, sorry about the rant.. heh
Just feeling pretty down..
The funeral is right in the middle of the week she was meant to be here, so she can't come now, basically.
Has anyone else been through this?
I guess its one part of a LDR I never really thought about.
I'm not there with her.
I cant hug her.
I cant make her feel any better..
I cant.. do anything. I feel so.. useless and helpless O_o
This sucks..
In the bigger picture, it's more important that she's at the funeral and stuff. There's more important things in her life than me.. but I'm allowed to be upset I wont see her too, right?
So yeah, how has anyone else dealt with this? What can I do? I'm 1000+ miles away and able to do nothing to/for the person I should be there for.
Kinda feel like I'm a failure to her or something
Yeah, sorry about the rant.. heh
Just feeling pretty down..
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