I need help!

[paulawriteslove]

If you don't want it to be an open relationship, then you should definitely talk to her. Follow your heart

[MTK]

Open relationships can be tough especially if one wants it more then the other. Don't agree to it just to make her happy because in the end you'll end up regretting it if you are not 100% ready for an open relationship.

I have never understood open relationships, i love only one person so would never be okay of the one i am dating is also seeing other people. To me it gives the feeling that they're not really that serious about you. :/

[HomerT6]

We're not in an open relationship anymore which is good..I just wished that things weren't so confusing...I am not sure but I think she might have mood swings...she was consistent for two months and now she might have ups and downs..between being happy about our relationship to totally ignoring my texts and my calls can someone hide their ups and downs like this?

[Rhiavaan]

Yes, some people are masters at hiding their flaws. Ask her on a good day why she ignores your texts on the 'off' days. Tell her it bothers you. She may not know that it does so.

[LadyMarchHare]

Take it from the child of a man who mastered the art of hiding his vices, it's very possible to hide moods like that, especially when you aren't face to face. I'm glad you're out of the open relationship, though, that was worrying me.

Is there anything going on in her life right now that you know of that could affect her mood like that? People, school, parents, money...? I'd hate to say it's just her since more often it's an outside force causing the change that, with help, can be stopped and reversed.

[jlgangsta]

hey there. its really nice to see that your not giving up and you wanna keep trying. but the whole "love you in a selfish way" doesnt sound too good to me. no offense..ya know. so ask her what her true feelings are and take it from there. good luck