Mildly long.. big question at the end for skimmers
for those who didn't know me back when...A few years ago a guy i was dating ended up with a job offer in Kuwait. I stood by him as he got ready to go, and even waited for him for a very long time.. over a year, probably close to two years. Anyway, long story short we fell apart. He didn't show me affection the way I needed..and so much more went wrong including me not being upfront when I started having problems with our relationship.
Fast forward...about September of this year, this man changes his relationship status to dating someone..which he never did with me . But that put the final cork in any hope I was foolishly harboring I started dating again, had a few flings...and then met Rick online. I was instantly attracted...etc etc and here he and I are. I am very happy and finally posted about it today on Facebook.
So, I decide to go to the website where I met my ExSO to see if he was still posting tags to me that I think are overboard, especially since he is supposed to be in a committed relationship (something he would NEVER give me!). So I see all kinds (10 new in the past month or so) and am surprised to see one that says "cmere sexy" amongst others I feel are just out of line from an ex-turned-friend I mean WTF!?!?!?!? Seriously..you wouldn't go there when you had me..and now you are...and your seeing someone who you claim on Facebook. OMG...I had to restrain myself from FB mailing her....it took a lot.
Am I over reacting? I think I need to message him to fucking stop. But I don't know if leaving it alone is best or if it will just keep happening. I don't go to the other site very often, but I really DO NOT like these flirty tags he's sending. You can find my profile here and the tags show on the right hand side. Should I mail him or not? I know I will tell Rick..it makes me uncomfortable to not tell him...
I don't want to loose BC as a friend but what the hell is he thinking???? So long story short...should I message my ExSO that the tags he has sent are inappropriate or should I leave it alone and hope he fucking quits?
for those who didn't know me back when...A few years ago a guy i was dating ended up with a job offer in Kuwait. I stood by him as he got ready to go, and even waited for him for a very long time.. over a year, probably close to two years. Anyway, long story short we fell apart. He didn't show me affection the way I needed..and so much more went wrong including me not being upfront when I started having problems with our relationship.
Fast forward...about September of this year, this man changes his relationship status to dating someone..which he never did with me . But that put the final cork in any hope I was foolishly harboring I started dating again, had a few flings...and then met Rick online. I was instantly attracted...etc etc and here he and I are. I am very happy and finally posted about it today on Facebook.
So, I decide to go to the website where I met my ExSO to see if he was still posting tags to me that I think are overboard, especially since he is supposed to be in a committed relationship (something he would NEVER give me!). So I see all kinds (10 new in the past month or so) and am surprised to see one that says "cmere sexy" amongst others I feel are just out of line from an ex-turned-friend I mean WTF!?!?!?!? Seriously..you wouldn't go there when you had me..and now you are...and your seeing someone who you claim on Facebook. OMG...I had to restrain myself from FB mailing her....it took a lot.
Am I over reacting? I think I need to message him to fucking stop. But I don't know if leaving it alone is best or if it will just keep happening. I don't go to the other site very often, but I really DO NOT like these flirty tags he's sending. You can find my profile here and the tags show on the right hand side. Should I mail him or not? I know I will tell Rick..it makes me uncomfortable to not tell him...
I don't want to loose BC as a friend but what the hell is he thinking???? So long story short...should I message my ExSO that the tags he has sent are inappropriate or should I leave it alone and hope he fucking quits?
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