Hey guys. Clear back in April, I broke up with my LDR girlfriend of 9 months. I'm 16 years old and so is she. After the breakup, I was fine, but after a while I started remembering how terrible of a girlfriend she was to me.
For example, I found out that she was going to be able to come up to my place for Prom in early April. I got really excited, and so I spent a good 4 or 5 hours working on a creative way to ask her. Here's what i came up with (and feel free to use this if you want): I sent her this lockable box that came with a key. That was in this huge cardboard box, and what she had to do was find the key hidden somewhere in the packing peanuts. Once she found it, she had to unlock the box, and inside were some chocolates and a picture of the two of us cut into a heart. On the back of it, it said "Now that you've found the key to my heart, will you go to prom with me?"
Cute, right? I thought so. Well, I spent a good 50 or 60 bucks to order the locking box because I couldn't find it in store and to mail the whole deal. So after I sent it, I waited... and I waited... and I waited to hear something about it from her. Even if she wasn't going to reply right away, I was expecting a simple "Heyyy, so I got your prom thing!" on the phone or something. 2 weeks after I sent it, I finally asked her, "So did you ever get my package in the mail?" Here's what she said. "Oh, your prom thing? Yeah, I got that like last week. It was sweet, but now I have this ugly black box that I don't know what to do with."
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Anyways, she tortured me for months with stuff like that. I gave her the world and got nothing at all back. Now, months after we broke up, she's moved on and has all kinds of guys around her, and I'm afraid to even hang out with friends because of what she did to me. I gave her everything that I am worth, and she took it all for granted. Now i'm afraid to give myself out to anybody.
Can anybody help me? How do I forget her, and move on with my life?
For example, I found out that she was going to be able to come up to my place for Prom in early April. I got really excited, and so I spent a good 4 or 5 hours working on a creative way to ask her. Here's what i came up with (and feel free to use this if you want): I sent her this lockable box that came with a key. That was in this huge cardboard box, and what she had to do was find the key hidden somewhere in the packing peanuts. Once she found it, she had to unlock the box, and inside were some chocolates and a picture of the two of us cut into a heart. On the back of it, it said "Now that you've found the key to my heart, will you go to prom with me?"
Cute, right? I thought so. Well, I spent a good 50 or 60 bucks to order the locking box because I couldn't find it in store and to mail the whole deal. So after I sent it, I waited... and I waited... and I waited to hear something about it from her. Even if she wasn't going to reply right away, I was expecting a simple "Heyyy, so I got your prom thing!" on the phone or something. 2 weeks after I sent it, I finally asked her, "So did you ever get my package in the mail?" Here's what she said. "Oh, your prom thing? Yeah, I got that like last week. It was sweet, but now I have this ugly black box that I don't know what to do with."
...
Anyways, she tortured me for months with stuff like that. I gave her the world and got nothing at all back. Now, months after we broke up, she's moved on and has all kinds of guys around her, and I'm afraid to even hang out with friends because of what she did to me. I gave her everything that I am worth, and she took it all for granted. Now i'm afraid to give myself out to anybody.
Can anybody help me? How do I forget her, and move on with my life?
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