Two text messages could change the face of my whole relationship. I was talking to her about christmas plans together, I had asked her if she wanted to exchange gifts, and she said sure. I found something for her, and got it cause it was in limited supply. I then asked her if how I suggested things was fair, and she didnt write back. No biggie, she often gets busy. Cut to the next morning, Im super stressed about something completely different, but i ended up questioning her interest in doing christmas together. An hour later I told her i was really really stressed and that i was going to just shut up before i cause damage. The next day i sincerely apologized to her, no response, today, i asked her if she was mad, no response.
Now obvioulsy this is something that i did, and not her. i allowed my stress to seep into our relationship and it did do some damage. I dont know what i should do. Do i give her space? Keep our christmas plans? I just need ANY advice on how to deal with this, and not do anymore damage by trying to fix it. This is the first time this has happened with us.
HELP?
Now obvioulsy this is something that i did, and not her. i allowed my stress to seep into our relationship and it did do some damage. I dont know what i should do. Do i give her space? Keep our christmas plans? I just need ANY advice on how to deal with this, and not do anymore damage by trying to fix it. This is the first time this has happened with us.
HELP?
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