Feeling empty, pain near heart, but feel no excitement or gooey love feeling anymore.

[lovedup]

Hi guys, I'm having a slight problem, and it hurts like crazy. I met a girl in Canada, we spend a little but of time together and we clicked straight away. We talked on viber for hours on end every night for a good month or so, and we told each other how we felt. I said to her I would come back to see her because we got on so well. We did use FaceTime a bit before I went back. I had an amazing exciting feeling, and when I got there it was even stronger, and we were perfect together. We got promise rings too, and we spend 16 in the same apartment and it felt so good. Now that I'm back, after about a month, I had a doubt for a split second if I loves her or not, I felt empty and crap and since that time I feel the excitement and happy feeling, and mushy goeey feeling has gone, and I feel empty I need this back, as we are meant to be, and It hurts to think of the distance, and to listen to our songs. I'm going back there in march, but it hurts so much now. I need some help please people my heart and future depends on it .

[Irina_Linn]

its normal to feel low after you met,because you understand that you wont see this close loved person for some time now.it differs for different people though because i,on contrary,feel super cheered up for month or 1,5 month right after we meet.and the closer the meeting day,the lower i feel.just talk to her and dont be scared you dont have this goofy feeling,in LDR you will experience a really wide range of mixed emotions

[Hyacinth]

some people thrive on the emotions while some need the physical aspect first and foremost, then and only then can they enjoy the emotional aspect. maybe you are of the latter category?
i reckon all the warm fuzzy feelings that you aren't feeling anymore is simply coz you guys are apart. when you get back together, it will all come flooding back.

do you guys still keep in touch as much??

[lovedup]

Yeah, text constantly, and skype every night, for hours sometimes,i just want that excitement back, that gooey feeling. im seeing her at the end of march, and i may move there for a year, just to build a strong foundation, and be with her... i love her to bits, she loves me too

[lovedup]

Thank you for your help, any other things or ideas to put some excitement into our skyping will be great, i just cant wait to see her, i just need to fight back the negative thoughts, because me and my gf were meant to be, we clicked immediately and the 16 days that i spent in her apartment, after not seeing her for 2 and a half months was amazing, and i know i will feel that in march when i go back .

btw i have a really romantic idea, for when i go back, this is it

Sorry i typed this to her friend so she would know whats going on And when i write rez, its her college apartment

I have a plan, that when i come back in march, i will tell her that my flight is booked for the saturday 30th of march. On the wednesday 27th of march i will tell her that i have no choice but to drive to the south of france for work and i cant fly till the tuesday the 2nd of april. But then i will book my flight for that day the 27th of march and make my way to Rez, and knock on her room door and surprise her with champagne and flowers i will trick her into going into her room to skype from "france", that way i know she is in her room, and then i surprise her.

what do you think guys