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    Last night I broke up with my SO. I know it was the right thing to do, but I'm feeling really sad and alone... I broke up with him because I need to focus on finding who I am, and fixing the many issues I have... I also don't think either one of us is really ready for this relationship I know he is upset and hurt and I don't know what the future holds now... We had so many plans... and now it is all gone. I'm trying to stay strong and not call him because I know this is for the best but it is so hard.

    #2
    Awww...I'm sorry I know it hurts, but it sounds like you've done what's best for yourself. Stay strong, it'll be painful for a while, but you'll be OK.
    Our separation of each other is an optical illusion of consciousness. ~Albert Einstein

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      #3
      I'm sorry oak . At least you ended the relationship for yourself. Good luck in finding your way, the pain will go in time.

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        #4
        awww I hope you feel better soon, I know you are not ready for another relationip obviously but I always found flirting with other guys when I am just recently single to feel a little better, it will keep your mind of things and it can be fun.

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          #5
          Sometimes you just have to do what is right for you. Its always hard right after a break up but, things will get better with time.




          Met Online: 02/2012
          Started talking privately: 09/20/2012
          First Met in person: 09/22/2012
          Started Dating: 10/30/2012
          Closed the Distance 4/24/2013

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            #6
            Awwh I'm sorry to hear that... But it's a good thing that you decided this for yourself and that you're working on your own issues before entering a relationship. Good luck and stay strong! *hugs*

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              #7
              I'm so sorry to hear this Though I'm happy you did what feels best for you, and wish you all the best *hugs*


              Met online: February 2011
              Met the first time: August 16, 2011

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                #8
                I am so sorry to hear how painful this is for you. Stay strong you'll be okay We're all here for you!


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                  #9
                  I'm sorry, Oak Maybe its for the best and in time both of you will come to understand.
                  “The ties that binds us are sometimes impossible to explain. They connect us even after it seems like the ties should be broken. Some bonds defy distance and time and logic; Because some ties are simply… meant to be.” - Grey’s Anatomy


                  >Little Box<



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                    #10
                    I'm sorry you're hurting right now... it must have taken a lot of courage to make that decision. Good luck with everything, I hope you start to feel better very soon

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                      #11
                      Thanks you guys. I really wasn't expecting to hurt so much... I really thought we would end up together.

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                        #12
                        sorry to hear this too....

                        but you know what? people enter your life for a reason.... and perhaps.... just perhaps.... he came into your life to teach you a lesson about yourself.
                        as a mirror... you know?

                        think about the good things you had..... cherish them.... and FEEL the pain you're going through right now....
                        it will teach you so much about yourself and if you made the right choice..

                        you will get out of this stronger in the end....

                        have a nice cup of tea..... or whatever you fancy..... and celebrate YOU.

                        we're here if you need us...
                        The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.

                        Carl Jung (1875 - 1961)

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                          #13
                          I'm sorry hun, but its good that you are doing what is right for you. hugs xx

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                            #14
                            Awwww sweetie im so sorry!!! <3
                            Made it official: 12-01-10
                            First visit: 3-29-13/4-09-13
                            Closed the distance: 07-31-13

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                              #15
                              I'm so sorry. Sending lots of hugs your way!

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