My bf and I have been dating over a year now. We recently had a long conversation about our relationship. Just a brief look at whats going on is, he's currently unemployed and lives at home with his mom. I asked him if he saw a future with me, and he replied that until he knows his future he can't promise me anything. He said he wants to be able to know that he can provide for me and be able to balance work and me at the same time. His parents are divorced and so he told me that he afraid our relationship ending in a divorce if we jump into it to soon. He also, said that before he brings anyone into his life he wants to be sure he could be there for them. And he doesn't want to go though what his parents went through. So I asked him if he wanted me to wait and he said "yes, that's what I am basically saying."
Which I fully understand his point. And he did also say, he knows that is probably not what I want the hear. But he doesn't want to promise anything without him figuring things out. I know as much as he's scared of divorce, he's as afraid of losing me as well.
Just wanted to know if anyone of you went through this or have any advice? As of now, I guess all i can do is wait...
Which I fully understand his point. And he did also say, he knows that is probably not what I want the hear. But he doesn't want to promise anything without him figuring things out. I know as much as he's scared of divorce, he's as afraid of losing me as well.
Just wanted to know if anyone of you went through this or have any advice? As of now, I guess all i can do is wait...
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