She broke up with me.. sweet!
We've been together for 8 months, I visited her once a month.
This valentines weekend, we got into a discussion about our relationship. I cried and told her that it was hard because we haven't been talking much; and it often feels like she doesnt care. She said that she DID CARE about me, and that she didnt know she affected me that way. we agreed to talk about it later.
So, two days later, i called her, and we both " I then brought up the discussion we had on the weekend and she replied. "
convo was about 30min long.
Dialog
HER: Hey babe, i was just thinking about you
ME: Ahh, really? cool
HER: Yeah, how ar e you?
ME: Im doing good, and you?
HER: im doing good too
ME: I was just working on some music stuff
HER: Cool, im on the computer
ME: I can hear you typing
HER: No i wasnt typing haha
HER: How was work?
ME: Pretty good, blah blah
HER: NICE
ME: Hey, about last visit. you know i was emotional that night. so you know i felt like the lack of communication in our relationship made me think a lot about stuff.
HER: Yeah, sweety I really really like you. You're amazing. i think we would be even more amazing as friends."
ME: What do you mean?
HER: We would be really good as friends
ME: Uhh, are you breaking up with me?
HER: Well, i like you, I've just been thinking about what happened recently with stuff, and i dont want to keep hurting you.
ME: Oh i see.. is this something you've thought about for a while, or?
HER: I realized that we both want different things. You'd want a girl that is more expressive with emotions. You should find someone like that
ME: This is weird... but okay. I can see that makes sense..
HER: Yeah
ME: We tried and did our best.. but this is so sudden
HER: I know, but i want you to know that you're still amazing and i think its best for us. You put a lot of work into this and seeing me
ME: Yeah.. still, i dont see how we can JUST be friends.
ME: long distance relationship is hard enough, dont see a point long distance friendship..
HER: I really want us to stay in touch, and check in with each other every now and then
ME: honestly, what will we talk about then as friends?
HER: Anything thats on your mind, really.
ME: Friends with ex's is very tricky. im unsure
HER: It's okay, just call me whenever you want to talk
ME: I think you're just being nice
HER: i want us to keep in touch
ME: I want to kiss you...
HER: yeah....
ME: I guess this is it
HER: Let me know whenever u want to talk
ME: Uh.. dont see that happening anytime soon. im still a bit shocked..
HER: I know.. i understand
ME: I got some homework stuf to do
HER: OK
HER: I also have some stuf to do, so ill call u later to say goodnight.
ME: Ok, bye
HER: Bye
Of course, i didnt expect a call from her. it's over. surprisingly, i havent cried. it doesnt feel like anything really. i guess its time to move on. this was hard. i thought that if i worked really hard,
that this was somehow work. it was quite the opposite. the harder i worked, the more emotionally invested i became.this was my first relationship.
This valentines weekend, we got into a discussion about our relationship. I cried and told her that it was hard because we haven't been talking much; and it often feels like she doesnt care. She said that she DID CARE about me, and that she didnt know she affected me that way. we agreed to talk about it later.
So, two days later, i called her, and we both " I then brought up the discussion we had on the weekend and she replied. "
convo was about 30min long.
Dialog
HER: Hey babe, i was just thinking about you
ME: Ahh, really? cool
HER: Yeah, how ar e you?
ME: Im doing good, and you?
HER: im doing good too
ME: I was just working on some music stuff
HER: Cool, im on the computer
ME: I can hear you typing
HER: No i wasnt typing haha
HER: How was work?
ME: Pretty good, blah blah
HER: NICE
ME: Hey, about last visit. you know i was emotional that night. so you know i felt like the lack of communication in our relationship made me think a lot about stuff.
HER: Yeah, sweety I really really like you. You're amazing. i think we would be even more amazing as friends."
ME: What do you mean?
HER: We would be really good as friends
ME: Uhh, are you breaking up with me?
HER: Well, i like you, I've just been thinking about what happened recently with stuff, and i dont want to keep hurting you.
ME: Oh i see.. is this something you've thought about for a while, or?
HER: I realized that we both want different things. You'd want a girl that is more expressive with emotions. You should find someone like that
ME: This is weird... but okay. I can see that makes sense..
HER: Yeah
ME: We tried and did our best.. but this is so sudden
HER: I know, but i want you to know that you're still amazing and i think its best for us. You put a lot of work into this and seeing me
ME: Yeah.. still, i dont see how we can JUST be friends.
ME: long distance relationship is hard enough, dont see a point long distance friendship..
HER: I really want us to stay in touch, and check in with each other every now and then
ME: honestly, what will we talk about then as friends?
HER: Anything thats on your mind, really.
ME: Friends with ex's is very tricky. im unsure
HER: It's okay, just call me whenever you want to talk
ME: I think you're just being nice
HER: i want us to keep in touch
ME: I want to kiss you...
HER: yeah....
ME: I guess this is it
HER: Let me know whenever u want to talk
ME: Uh.. dont see that happening anytime soon. im still a bit shocked..
HER: I know.. i understand
ME: I got some homework stuf to do
HER: OK
HER: I also have some stuf to do, so ill call u later to say goodnight.
ME: Ok, bye
HER: Bye
Of course, i didnt expect a call from her. it's over. surprisingly, i havent cried. it doesnt feel like anything really. i guess its time to move on. this was hard. i thought that if i worked really hard,
that this was somehow work. it was quite the opposite. the harder i worked, the more emotionally invested i became.this was my first relationship.
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