I'm not saying that your not cautious what I'm saying is other people are negative because they are concerned for you regardless of your own behaviour.
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Originally posted by leah_c View Post
I've tried to research my SO, but he is very protective of his information.February 2012 -- met online
August 2012 -- he said "I love you."
April 2013 -- met in person
June 2013 -- broke up
July 2013 -- back together
August 2013 -- 2nd visit
October 20, 2013 -- He proposed!
April 22, 2014 -- Married/closed the distance!
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Originally posted by digitalfever View PostI'm not saying that your not cautious what I'm saying is other people are negative because they are concerned for you regardless of your own behaviour.
Originally posted by Ahava View PostWe actually didn't video chat before we met in person, but did send loads of photoes, talked on the phone, IM every single day, text messages etc for over 4 months before we met. I do suggest people be careful though, coz this word is full of crazy people.
Originally posted by Benni View PostHe shouldn't be protective of his information with YOU! He should give you any info you need to make sure he is on the up and up! My guy gave me so much info on him so I could check him out -- he encouraged it because he knew I had doubts and wanted to prove himself to me. Your guy should do the same or else that would raise a red flag for me. So, be as sure as you can about him!
Hmmm.... well I have his address, phone number, pics, know that he's been in the military, etc. Is it bad that I don't have more info? I probably sound silly but what should I ask more about? I mean if he hasnt been in newspapers or anything then what else could be proof? I mean I don't think I need his citizenship information or more personal stuff like that, right,?
Don't mean to sound rude or stupid, but what information should I need? I feel like asking for more in-depth, personal information might make me seem creepy or like I want to steal his identity or something. Lol.*First visit- 6/15/13-6/29/13*
*Second Visit- 6/21/14-7/5/14*
*My part of the K-1 Visa approved on 10/23/14*
*Fiancé had his Medical Appt. on 2/16/15*
*Fiancé's Visa Interview Appt and approved on 4/13/15*
*Fiancé received his Fiance Visa on 4/20/15*
*Closing the distance on 5/22/15*
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I would simply ask him anything I needed to know to make myself feel safe. His answers will tell you whether he's being honest with you or not -- if he hems and haws and resists an answer then I'd be worried. If he answers forthright, then I would trust him all the more.February 2012 -- met online
August 2012 -- he said "I love you."
April 2013 -- met in person
June 2013 -- broke up
July 2013 -- back together
August 2013 -- 2nd visit
October 20, 2013 -- He proposed!
April 22, 2014 -- Married/closed the distance!
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I just wonder, how much personal info have you given him? He's really in the same boat as you here, so you might want to talk about giving out little information simultaneously, that might help him to relax and open up. Good luck and get those cams goingWe part only to meet again ~ J.Gay
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Originally posted by Alsfia View PostI just wonder, how much personal info have you given him? He's really in the same boat as you here, so you might want to talk about giving out little information simultaneously, that might help him to relax and open up. Good luck and get those cams going
Sorry, it just annoys me.
Thanks for replying.*First visit- 6/15/13-6/29/13*
*Second Visit- 6/21/14-7/5/14*
*My part of the K-1 Visa approved on 10/23/14*
*Fiancé had his Medical Appt. on 2/16/15*
*Fiancé's Visa Interview Appt and approved on 4/13/15*
*Fiancé received his Fiance Visa on 4/20/15*
*Closing the distance on 5/22/15*
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