I'm attempting to make a 4 month long distance relationship work. She is in Europe and I'm in North America so there is a 6 hour time difference usually.
4 months seems so long sometimes, though I know it is relative.
We've been off and on for 2 1/2 years. She is finishing school in Europe and after these 4 months she'll be done for good. She left in late February and will be back in early July
When we first started dating a few years ago we tried doing a LDR when she had to back to school, after dating for just a month and a half. It was an intense 1 1/2 months but not enough for a foundation for a relationship. It didn't work out and ended badly.
But we have met back up when she comes home from school and have slowly built a relationship since the summer. I know we have a deeper connection now and things are going better but slower.
Do you think this 4 month long distance relationship do-able? I want to keep myself busy while she's gone this time because I think I was skyping her too much last time when school was on and it annoyed her and pushed her away.
I guess this time I'm trying to keep somewhat of a distance but talk to her when she is free with no pressure on her. As well as living my own life here while she is gone.
It seems to be working well so far. But it is still very early. We don't talk every day, but we skype a few times a week and send e-mails now and then. I'm just trying to be careful.
But I'm afraid of the past repeating.
4 months seems so long sometimes, though it is peanuts compared to what some of you have been through.
Do you think a 4 month LDR in these circumstances can work?
I'm just afraid of the past repeating.
I'm also thinking of maybe travelling to visit her. But it didn't work out well last time and she will be back in 4 months so I am not sure.
4 months seems so long sometimes, though I know it is relative.
We've been off and on for 2 1/2 years. She is finishing school in Europe and after these 4 months she'll be done for good. She left in late February and will be back in early July
When we first started dating a few years ago we tried doing a LDR when she had to back to school, after dating for just a month and a half. It was an intense 1 1/2 months but not enough for a foundation for a relationship. It didn't work out and ended badly.
But we have met back up when she comes home from school and have slowly built a relationship since the summer. I know we have a deeper connection now and things are going better but slower.
Do you think this 4 month long distance relationship do-able? I want to keep myself busy while she's gone this time because I think I was skyping her too much last time when school was on and it annoyed her and pushed her away.
I guess this time I'm trying to keep somewhat of a distance but talk to her when she is free with no pressure on her. As well as living my own life here while she is gone.
It seems to be working well so far. But it is still very early. We don't talk every day, but we skype a few times a week and send e-mails now and then. I'm just trying to be careful.
But I'm afraid of the past repeating.
4 months seems so long sometimes, though it is peanuts compared to what some of you have been through.
Do you think a 4 month LDR in these circumstances can work?
I'm just afraid of the past repeating.
I'm also thinking of maybe travelling to visit her. But it didn't work out well last time and she will be back in 4 months so I am not sure.
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