How did your SO ask you to be in a relationship or how did you ask them?

[Alle1770]

Neither of us actually asked about it straight out, it just sort of happened I guess we became a couple the first day we met each other, at night, when we spent the entire evening just kissing and talking about everything, until the sun came up.... And that was that

[snow]

We had been talking to each other for 3 months (the day I realized I was in love with HIM and not my boyfriend anymore is another story..) and I had broken up with my ex about 2 weeks prior, but I was still living with him and since I didn't know where to go I couldn't move out and when I told him this he said that he finally wants to tell his friends that I'm his girlfriend and I just said "I'm a pretty bad girlfriend, huh?" and he got all excited and was like "YOU JUST CALLED YOURSELF MY GIRLFRIEND!! I have to write it down - May 22nd"

[TwoThree]

Neither of us asked. I date the start of our relationship back to when we first said "I love you".

He said it first, though

[Alsfia]

He got a crush on me about a month after we started talking, which developed into love. I knew this but I was in a relationship and felt bad for feeling the same way, but I couldn't really admit it to myself or him, nor could I break contact with him. He visited, and I fell so hard for him, 2½ months later I visited him and we sat at Krispy Kreamy in Paddington cuddling, when he said "I'd love to live with you one day. I can only imagine marrying you someday in the future..." (not exactly, but something like that :P ) and it just hit me that I couldn't imagine doing any of this with my then boyfriend... I just replied "well lets live together then. I love you" and I ended it with my ex shortly after... My SO spent more or less my whole visit being shocked, though :P And that day I came over and finally took the (so far) best decision of my life is what we count as our anniversery

[Sukkerklumpen]

I had told him that a guy at college had asked me out but I didn't accept and he said " He better stay away from you. You're my girl. " aaaaaand that was it lol I was visiting my cousin and she witnessed me getting all red and excited and she asked me what he had told me and I told her. We screamed out in joy like crazy hahaha.

[corrda00]

I was really akward about it and just asked if she wanted to be my girlfriend. Turns out she did

[leonsfangirl]

We were having abit of an argument when we decided to become a couple.

I'd not long split from my husband and was getting hassled by some guy friends so my SO and I decided to put on facebook we were in a relationship to see if these idiots would leave me alone..... didn't work.
My SO had a long history and were full on in love with each other at this point and the attention i was getting was getting him down, they showed me no respect and treated me like a piece of meat and he snapped.
We started arguing, i said i wasnt interested in them and i didnt want the attention and he asked me "What do you want?" and i said "You, i want you.... what do you want?", He said "You"
And that started the relationship talk.

[MattDavies86]

I didn't ask, she asked me, but I think she was joking with me, we had known each other only for 2-3 days and this were just magical to be honest, we were sat with some of her friends outside a bar and they were talking, she turned to me and asked "are you my boyfriend?" I didn't think she was joking but I answered instinctively and fast "yes I am", i didn't even think about the answer before blurting it out, she was shocked, but thought I was joking too, we've talked about this many times since, like when I first told her I love her, she that I was joking and said it back too, but we both know now it's real

[Amberlynn]

Well, we were messaging on a website for a little while, then we moved to e-mail, and then we began texting each other every day. Flirting started, sweet little things were said. One night I just had to ask him what he thought about us. Where we were and what we wanted. We mutually said that we would be together. (:

[Dziubka]

Neither of us actually asked about it straight out, it just sort of happened

This.
It was a gradual process and in the end we were in an relationship I guess.

I remember after a few weeks (maybe three?) of seeing each other he took my to his friend's birthday party (at a club, though) and apparently he had told his friends that he would be taking his girlfriend. At the party they asked me "So, you're [my boyfriend]'s girlfriend, then?" and I was like "NOOO!" OOps.
Well, I am now.

[butlerfly]

We had been spending time with each other maybe just over a month. It was a Saturday morning cuddling in bed, and he says to me. ' a guy from uni asked me on Friday if I had a girlfriend, I told him I kind of did. he then said to me what does that mean that she wants to be but you don't really. I told he not really.
Then Steve says to me so next time someone asks me if I have a girlfriend do I tell them yes. I told him to say yes.

and in 3 weeks that would have been 2 years ago.. I love him lots

[ayarusworld]

Hmmm... he never ask me and I never ask him. We just chat and it flows like a water, then suddenly we are a bf n gf loving each other very much

[hmrambling]

I liked her for quite a while and never told her. I told her that I loved her and she thought I meant that I loved her like a friend. On December 5, 2012, she said she had a crush on me. I couldn't believe it. For nearly a week, I returned to her asking for clarification and she said that she loved me, that it was more than a crush. She texted in early January that she wanted to visit me. She visited me on January 15. The second she arrived, I wanted her to stay and not leave.... ever. She was only in for a couple of days. We hardly left each other's side at all. Shortly after she left, I asked her to be my girlfriend. She said yes.



and here we are....

[garnet]

We met in WoW around 5 years ago, were good friends, he hit on me a lot, and while I super liked him, I just thought he was a big flirt. Finally when my last relationship went to sh*t, I asked him over google talk if he wanted to step it up a notch. He said yes, and now we're coming up on a year together. <3

[Belle]

My SO was telling me a story about something that happened right before I arrived for our first visit as more than friends. In this story, he told his co-worker that his "girlfriend" was coming into town. When he said that, he paused and looked at me "idk if you want tittles or anything..." I was stunned and said nothing so after a second, he continued the story. Later that day/next day (we can't remember) we were cuddling and I thought to myself "he's never gonna ask me to be his gf because I didn't respond to his question. What if he thinks I don't want anything official!??" So I asked him then and there is the most awkward way.
Me: do you wanna be my bf?
Him: Yea...... Do you wanna be my gf?
Me: Yea. (laid down on his arm again...)
..... I get up...
Me: i mean it seriously. not like "hey you wanna go to the grocery store?" and then you don't go, but like "you wanna go to the grocery store?" and then you actually go.
Him: yes i wanna be your bf
LMAO! And thats how I asked my SO to be my bf.