What attracted you to your SO? personality? etc.

[katiecat08]

My SO and I became good friends before we fell in love and I just fell in love with his personality right away. He is such a sweet loving man. He cares very deeply for others and he makes me laugh. You truly fall in love for who they are when in an LDR and I dont understand why people get upset about LDRs. Looks may factor in later on but I love him for everything he is.

[dragonlady]

his personalty and his eyes, after he send me a pic and saw his eyes felt for him hard time!!!

[pretty ll vacant]

It was 100% his personality because I started falling for him before I ever really knew what he looked like. I'm not sure if it was because I was already smitten or what, but when I finally saw his picture I was like.. daaaaaamn! I liked every single thing about him and the love between us grows more and more each day.

[kteire]

When we first met, I started talking to him because I thought he was cute, particularly his curly hair and his nice rower arms! I was already looking forward to meeting him, because we had/have a lot of mutual friends who adore him and would talk about him all the time. We talked a lot the first night we met and I knew straight away that he was incredibly interesting and a lot of fun!

Didn't figure out for a while how much we have in common and how lovely and caring he is, even though I had my suspicions, haha

[MattDavies86]

I remember when I first saw her, I just remember thinking waw, she is so beautiful, and remember thinking I love her hair color! Then as I got close just to see how her beautiful smile and that she was REALLY shy around me, she has never been like that before, she's usually really forward but something about me made her shy, and that was so sweet, stole my heart right there and then... correction, she didn't steal it, I gave it to her willingly.

[Catface]

I was very happily single when I met my SO and had no desire to be in a relationship. When we were at the wedding together we were the only people who weren't direct family or best friends to the bride and groom, so we spent a lot of time together. We have a lot of nerdy common interests, get each other's bad jokes and love having fun for the sake of having fun. He was thoughtful right from the start. He went to a comiccon that i was supposed to go to, but had to miss, so when we met he pulled out some of my favorite comics that he had bought for me there. He was open, friendly and understanding. I fell in love with him despite myself Now he is not only a fantastic boyfriend but my best friend as well

[TwoThree]

His face.

[Moon]

His sense of compassion and his laugh. Plus, in his intranet picture, he had this really snarky looking little half smile, that I liked immediately, well before we were anything more than co-workers.

[TwoThree]

His face.

We're talking about what attracted us "At first", right?

[Malaga]

It's hard to tell. I did see his profile pic as soon as we came across each other, and I thought he was very attractive, but that's not what made me crush on him. Maybe it was his innocence. He wasn't even aware of what a lovable person he was and how attractive he truly is. Even when we were flirting pretty obviously, he wasn't even aware he was doing it, and so there weren't any mind games, tactics, lines, confusions etc. He was just so open to me. All of that made him really special to me.

[Phantomrose]

My SO's personality attracted me to him. He's just a funny, and laid back guy. I like how we can talk about anything, and he won't judge me, and I like how he goofs around sometimes.

[rubydissolution]

When I first met him, our first date...I was soooo nervous, but gradually we loosened up and our true blue personalities came out. The fact that those personalities meshed so well together drew me too him. So he's cute fo sho, but his personality won me over.

[MissButterfly]

His language. At first I thought he was just the average guy, he was fun to talk to but I had to leave after I only saw him twice. But then we started emailing and I found out that he wrote these amazingly beautiful and sensitive stories and poems and I completely fell for that. Such a hopeless romantic... Too bad he isn't anymore now. He just finds the 'romanticness' I fell for cliché and stupid now. So that's kind of a bummer, but all well. People change, and I still love him

[SeeRat]

When we were friends he always made me laugh whenever I talked to him. It was always fun talking to him and i fell for him

[summerkid]

the way he thinks .. I guess i could also say his personality, but i distinctly also mean the kind of thoughts he has and the way he expressed them and structured his arguments. The fact that he is genuine and passionate. His voice... cause we didn't use cam for a while, but i loved his voice...

I thought i had him figured out, but he surprised me. Also.. he's weird .. which i can relate to .