How often do you argue?

[wayoutofhere]

I'm wondering how how often do you argue with your SO and what is it usually about? Arguing over small things or something more serious? How do your arguments usually end?

[Bex2804]

We often argue about little things but they all end up with us talking it out over skype We had our first big argument after being together for 9 months a few nights ago and it ended with us giving each other time to think and again to talk it out and see how we can stop it happening again He is normally right though and I don't like being wrong xD

[digitalfever]

The last time we argued it was about the fact that I wanted to go to Nando's an not get Chinese. We argue about silly things...

[TwoThree]

Daily.

Okay, not daily. Once or twice a week, at least. That's how we are. Or rather, that's how I am, but he bears with me, somehow.

[ChibiFelicia]

We often argue when we're playing online games. It's silly but we've never shouted at each other unless it was in a game. When we have disagreements we talk it out over skype or in person. We both don't like being confrontational and have found a better way to get our point across to each other rather than shout, get frustrated, shout some more etc.

[arrah5]

All. The. Time.
We fight about serious issues, and we fight about stupid stuff. I have a very blunt way about me, and sometimes it comes across as me being rude, when I am just being honest with him, and he has a hard time with it cause he is used to things being sugar coated. I don't do that...

We both have self esteem issues and many of our fights are cause by insecurity. We usually talk it out, and get through it as best we can. We are still hanging on so I guess we are doing something right.

[blankita719]

Occasionally. We argue about closing the distance mainly. I want him here and he wants me to go there. During the winter, we tend to argue about the amount of time we spend together because he works in retail management and that's his busiest season, making him less available.

And we have an ongoing argument over something he said 15 years ago

[kayla_622]

We argue maybe once a month and they aren't even serious arguments either. It just doesn't happen. We have disagreements occasionally but it doesn't develop into anything.

[oxytocinbite]

The only thing we really argue about is animals...which is super strange but I am very passionate about them haha. Also weed and this guy named Daniel that I really don't like but is his friend.

[Moon]

Not that often, maybe monthly? Those are usually minor, we've only had couple of blow-outs, most of our disagreements, like 85%, are about work related crap

[loveknowsnodistance27]

A decent amount. I don't know how often specifically, but it can maybe be like once a week or once every two weeks. Usually it's about how much time we talk or misunderstandings because most of our conversations are via text or IM. We actually just had a fight less than an hour ago and he got passive aggressive and signed off of Facebook. But, I emailed him apologizing because it was a misinterpretation and I realized I was wrong in what I'd said.

[snow]

We used to argue a lot, because I used to have a very low self-esteem and was always scared he'd leave me and he saw it as no confidence in the relationship and felt insulted.

Once I understood he's not going to leave that easily we don't really argue that often anymore, maybe once or twice a month

[summerkid]

oh.. we argue alright... especially these days..

[nicole]

We don't really argue. Sometimes one of us will be tired and grumpy and get snappy, but I wouldn't really call it an argument as such. We've had a few blow ups though, I'd say actual arguments, maybe 2-3 times during the year? I dunno we haven't had much to argue about. We're starting the process of re-locating though, and now we're having to move states, and sift through all the mortgage/realtor stuff, as well as possibly renovating a house... I envision some high-tempers and arguments in our near future

[milaya]

Daily.

Okay, not daily. Once or twice a week, at least. That's how we are. Or rather, that's how I am, but he bears with me, somehow.

This! XD I'm glad to hear we're not the only ones arguing a lot.

I guess I'm the kind of person who get annoyed with the small things and can sometimes blow it up too much. I can get rather angry and nagging - and I admit this.

A few weeks ago we had a big and long fight about how he put jam on his bread. Haha
(Well, to be honest, it started out with the jam, but got into a bigger fight concerning cultural differences and how I have to adapt to his culture all the time, but he doesn't seem to take my culture very serious)

Lately we fight a lot over future issues - jobs, house, car and money.