Need help reading his signs. Does he like me? :)
Hey guys!
First off I used to be in a LDR – lasted 3 years but we split due to him not wanting to make the effort anymore for me :/ sad I know but I have moved on
You are all doing so great and I feel that LDR’s are amazing and well worth it!
I know it isn’t a LDR-related but I REALLY would love your advice! ^_^
Thanks in advance for reading =D
So – I like this guy from work. We are similar age, both 22.
We have common interests and likes – (also he is 6ft 8 and I am 4ft 11 which is funny as we both are so opposite to height but I do love tall guys)
I started noticing him when I used to call through on the phone to him (we work in a call centre) and have to sometimes call each other for help. So we got talking as you do at work on the phone and sometimes we get some funny customers ringing in and have a carry on :P
Then, I noticed when we sat across the room from each other when I would look his way he suddenly would look away – shyly as if
I then used to start noticing him looking my way catching his eye – and me doing the same and we would occasionally smile and giggle to ourselves.
It then started when we would finish around the same time and he would joke ‘you’re stalking me again’ and I would say ‘im not!’ :P and he would act like “hmmm yeah right haha” and seemed to say in a flirty way which I would reply in a flirty way too
I drive and he doesn’t – which I once offered walking out together if he would like a lift, he kindly accepted and said I was very kind to do so. Then we got chatting about this event that we and few work mates are thinking of going to in June that is what are into (gaming) and I think that’s as though its an invite which I replied I would wanna go to.
We then friended on Facebook, But shortly after I friended him on there, I private messaged him saying “hii how are you?” and he didn’t reply….which then when he saw me at work told me he was sorry and forgot to message me back – which made me feel at first was an excuse but I am not too sure. This is what is making me think he may not like me or something lol
We noticed we had quite a number of common interests. Which…since he has been commenting at work when we have time to talk (if I am giving lifts for him – he would bring up he saw a video I uploaded on my Facebook and youtube about gameplays I make – commenting he liked them, and once he talked about something to me I never told him – he must have read a comment I said to a friend on Facebook – meaning he is checking up on me!)
Cut long story short – he is leaving my workplace and moving onto another job next week. He said “you won’t be able to stalk me as I am leaving next week" – which I congratulated and he thanked me a lot. A part of me is going to really miss him, as recently I have been going to work only thinking about him, and seeing him.
Even today, a friend sitting behind him got to talk to me on the phone, as soon as our friend said my name, the guy I like turned around and said “oh is that Rachel” as if he overheard and wanted to be involved pulling his chair over to my friend and overhearing our conversation, which I said to tell him I say hi and he replied saying hi too”. (Rachel is my name btw).
I REALLY like him – but I just don’t want to seem like I am stalking him even though it is our joke lol I wanna ask him to do something one time but I have a fear he will reject it lol…what do you guys think? And because since he never replied to my Facebook message about few weeks ago, I didn’t want to seem desperate to message him again and just wait – but I feel I don’t want to wait too long otherwise he may never want to message me. I only have a few more days with him in person. Want to make the most of the face-to-face time before he leaves.
Thanks ^_^
First off I used to be in a LDR – lasted 3 years but we split due to him not wanting to make the effort anymore for me :/ sad I know but I have moved on
You are all doing so great and I feel that LDR’s are amazing and well worth it!
I know it isn’t a LDR-related but I REALLY would love your advice! ^_^
Thanks in advance for reading =D
So – I like this guy from work. We are similar age, both 22.
We have common interests and likes – (also he is 6ft 8 and I am 4ft 11 which is funny as we both are so opposite to height but I do love tall guys
)I started noticing him when I used to call through on the phone to him (we work in a call centre) and have to sometimes call each other for help. So we got talking as you do at work on the phone and sometimes we get some funny customers ringing in and have a carry on :P
Then, I noticed when we sat across the room from each other when I would look his way he suddenly would look away – shyly as if
I then used to start noticing him looking my way catching his eye – and me doing the same and we would occasionally smile and giggle to ourselves.It then started when we would finish around the same time and he would joke ‘you’re stalking me again’ and I would say ‘im not!’ :P and he would act like “hmmm yeah right haha” and seemed to say in a flirty way which I would reply in a flirty way too
I drive and he doesn’t – which I once offered walking out together if he would like a lift, he kindly accepted and said I was very kind to do so. Then we got chatting about this event that we and few work mates are thinking of going to in June that is what are into (gaming) and I think that’s as though its an invite which I replied I would wanna go to.
We then friended on Facebook, But shortly after I friended him on there, I private messaged him saying “hii how are you?” and he didn’t reply….which then when he saw me at work told me he was sorry and forgot to message me back – which made me feel at first was an excuse but I am not too sure. This is what is making me think he may not like me or something lol
We noticed we had quite a number of common interests. Which…since he has been commenting at work when we have time to talk (if I am giving lifts for him – he would bring up he saw a video I uploaded on my Facebook and youtube about gameplays I make – commenting he liked them, and once he talked about something to me I never told him – he must have read a comment I said to a friend on Facebook – meaning he is checking up on me!
)Cut long story short – he is leaving my workplace and moving onto another job next week. He said “you won’t be able to stalk me as I am leaving next week" – which I congratulated and he thanked me a lot. A part of me is going to really miss him, as recently I have been going to work only thinking about him, and seeing him.
Even today, a friend sitting behind him got to talk to me on the phone, as soon as our friend said my name, the guy I like turned around and said “oh is that Rachel” as if he overheard and wanted to be involved pulling his chair over to my friend and overhearing our conversation, which I said to tell him I say hi and he replied saying hi too”. (Rachel is my name btw).
I REALLY like him – but I just don’t want to seem like I am stalking him even though it is our joke lol I wanna ask him to do something one time but I have a fear he will reject it lol…what do you guys think? And because since he never replied to my Facebook message about few weeks ago, I didn’t want to seem desperate to message him again and just wait – but I feel I don’t want to wait too long otherwise he may never want to message me. I only have a few more days with him in person. Want to make the most of the face-to-face time before he leaves.
Thanks ^_^
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