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    Unexpected first meeting with SO? Heaven help me!

    My SO just called me and said he has booked a flight for tomorrow to come and spend the day with me Thursday. He is actually starting his new firefighting job monday and said he just couldnt wait longer to come and meet me. Its only going to be for one day but I dont care, just getting to be with him is all that matters to me. But heres what im afraid of, he's going to call my parents and let them know. I had no idea he was going to do this so i definitely had nothing to do with him coming this soon. I'm praying that they will understand his situation because once he starts his new job, he wont be able to get any days off right away. Any tips for me? I work from 9-5 everyday so ill only get to see him after work but thats fine with me. Im so nervous!1

    #2
    Call in sick! (i'm a horrible influence :P)
    Made it official: 12-01-10
    First visit: 3-29-13/4-09-13
    Closed the distance: 07-31-13

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      #3
      you look like you have a fever...

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        #4
        Worth calling in!

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          #5
          Definitely call in sick -- this is TOO important to miss!!
          February 2012 -- met online
          August 2012 -- he said "I love you."
          April 2013 -- met in person
          June 2013 -- broke up
          July 2013 -- back together
          August 2013 -- 2nd visit
          October 20, 2013 -- He proposed!
          April 22, 2014 -- Married/closed the distance!

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            #6
            I cant just call in sick you guys. I could get fired for that if i wasnt really sick. :/ I'll only get a few hours with him but I dont care, as long as I finally get to meet him Im happy.

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              #7
              Anybody could get fired if they lie to their boss...good part is that they hardly ever find out <_< ........ >_>
              Made it official: 12-01-10
              First visit: 3-29-13/4-09-13
              Closed the distance: 07-31-13

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                #8
                Yeah but I would feel very guilty for doing that. Right now my mom is pretty much freaking out because its so sudden. I am constantly telling her that he came up with this all on his own and that if I couldve gotten to him before he booked his ticket, I wouldve tried to talk him out of it because this week is crazy.


                Originally posted by Black_Halloween View Post
                Anybody could get fired if they lie to their boss...good part is that they hardly ever find out <_< ........ >_>

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                  #9
                  Originally posted by katiecat08 View Post
                  Yeah but I would feel very guilty for doing that. Right now my mom is pretty much freaking out because its so sudden. I am constantly telling her that he came up with this all on his own and that if I couldve gotten to him before he booked his ticket, I wouldve tried to talk him out of it because this week is crazy.
                  Lol okay, okay. Enjoy your few hours together then dear. YOU BETTER POST PHOTOS
                  Made it official: 12-01-10
                  First visit: 3-29-13/4-09-13
                  Closed the distance: 07-31-13

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                    #10
                    Oh I will! I cant wait!

                    Originally posted by Black_Halloween View Post
                    Lol okay, okay. Enjoy your few hours together then dear. YOU BETTER POST PHOTOS

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                      #11
                      Love it how you are honest (I couldn't do that either).
                      But could you try asking your boss if you could leave a couple of hours earlier?
                      Get one of your colleagues to do your shift?

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                        #12
                        Originally posted by Ahava View Post
                        Love it how you are honest (I couldn't do that either).
                        But could you try asking your boss if you could leave a couple of hours earlier?
                        Get one of your colleagues to do your shift?
                        ^^ This.

                        Either way I hope you enjoy your first time together and remember to take photos! I always get so caught up that unless I purposefully plan I won't take them!
                        Joey & Scott
                        Met: April 2002
                        Lost Contact: August 2002
                        Reconnected: April 2010
                        Together: May 20th 2010






                        [COLOR="#800080"]"Do not anticipate trouble, or worry about what may never happen. Keep in the sunlight." Benjamin Franklin

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                          #13
                          Originally posted by Ahava View Post
                          Love it how you are honest (I couldn't do that either).
                          But could you try asking your boss if you could leave a couple of hours earlier?
                          Get one of your colleagues to do your shift?
                          ^ I'd do that.. ASAP I'd tell my boss the deal.. explain that you only get one day together, maybe even suggest that you'll make up the time by working overtime - or take a pay cut for the day that you miss... either that or I'd say I have some kind of doc appt in the afternoon or something.. and try to get the afternoon off.. haha :P


                          Originally posted by Black_Halloween View Post
                          Lol okay, okay. Enjoy your few hours together then dear. YOU BETTER POST PHOTOS
                          haha, love your subtle sarcasm there BH.
                          Met Online: February 2009
                          Feelings grew: January 2011
                          First met in person: 4 April - 16 April 2011
                          Officially together since: 4th of April 2011
                          Second visit: 29 June - 1 August 2011
                          Third visit: 28 September - 15 October 2011
                          Fourth visit: 19 January - 25 February 2012
                          Fifth visit: 24 March - 12 April 2012
                          Sixth visit: 2 June - 7 July 2012
                          Engaged: 1st of July 2012
                          Seventh visit: 27 August - 23 September
                          Visa lodged: 5th of November 2012
                          Eighth visit: 8 December 2012 - 12 January 2013
                          Visa granted: 8th of May 2013
                          Hawaii: 19 May - 2 June 2013
                          Closed the distance: 16th of July 2013

                          Married my Englishman on the 4th of October 2013

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                            #14
                            Oh I will post photos as soon as I can!! I can't believe he's coming. His whole family says they want to meet me someday soon so I'm very excited. He's from Clovis NM.

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