Its not goodbye..its until next time.:)

[katiecat08]

Well last night I had to say bye to my boyfriend for the first time. It was very hard to do, we held each other for a very long time,shared sweet kisses and whispered how much we love each other. Having our first meeting has really confirmed in my heart that this is meant to be. We click together. We weren't nervous around each other at all today and it felt so real and natural like we had known each other for years. Holding him in my arms felt like heaven on earth. I'm not really afraid of our future. I was sad to see him go, but I know that we will see each other again, it makes me so happy knowing my parents like him and maybe one day they'll let me fly down there for a visit too. When did you feel that confirmation of,"This is real its meant to be?"

[Ahava]

Last weekend all the weekend
But have done on many occasions before also, but I have also had insecurities.

[Jazi]

It's good to hear that you had a good trip.. I think though that this could have been added onto the end of your last thread "me and my baby", many of us asked on the "Ugh strange turn of events.." thread how your trip went and even THAT thread would have been a perfectly good place to add this post onto. We DO check new posts on threads, everyone who is interested in how your trip went would have looked at either one of those threads that I mentioned.

I understand you're really happy about meeting and you're going through a whirlwind of emotions BUT you have posted 3 topics in the same forum section.. about the same topic in LESS than 24 hours.

To answer your question - I think it's a gradual knowing, if you're asking yourself "This is real its meant to be?" then it probably isn't yet. Let it evolve naturally.. and calm down on all the threads.

[JoeyBug]

This is going to sound dumb, but I knew for sure that it was all real when he didn't take a job he wanted because he wanted to be with me more and wanted to marry me more than the job...despite that it would move him back closer to his friends, he didn't want it, he wanted me instead and that's when it was confirmed for me. Also when he told me he wanted to move to the UK "so that I can marry you and start the next chapter of our lives together" that showed me he was in it for real...