The man i have been dateing for about a year now. We planned to close the distance June 2, he was/is planning to move with me. Everything is in place as he is warapping up his current job and has a job offer in my town.
I always knew someting was off. When i was in town there was always a reson we would not stay at his home, reguardless he would spend holidays with me and say all the right things.
We have ended the relationship once because i felt he was hiding something from me. I asked him to come clean, if we are going to live together we need to start out right. He told me he has not been living with his roomate (best male friend) but it was really his ex girlfriend. He told me they were living together, as a couple for 4 years and bought a house together 2 years ago, breaking up shortly after but still living together until they could sell the house.
He has shown me the deed and has given her the house and just walked away, last week. He also just moved out last week.
I believe he is telling me the truth now. I dont think there has been anything between them for a long time. I just dont know if I can move on with him knowing he lied to me daily about his living arrangment, how he was watching tv with, while texting me. I think of all the times he would be outside talking to me and it was her that came out to see what he was doing.
Can someone give me insight? Can you live with your ex for 2 years and be over them. He said it was all about the house. I couldnt live with my ex for years but i have never jointly owned a house with someone. He lied to me when i told him i felt like I was loseing my mind and i had never been insecure. Even when i said, are you living with a girlfriend, in a relationship. I even went so far as to ask if he was gay and in a relationship with his roomate.
I love him but I dont want to be the fool. My heart tells me he is the one but im afraid he will just end up lying to me in the future. Or maybe he is really not over his ex and im the extended rebound?
Thoughts advise? Have you been through this, how did it turn out?
I always knew someting was off. When i was in town there was always a reson we would not stay at his home, reguardless he would spend holidays with me and say all the right things.
We have ended the relationship once because i felt he was hiding something from me. I asked him to come clean, if we are going to live together we need to start out right. He told me he has not been living with his roomate (best male friend) but it was really his ex girlfriend. He told me they were living together, as a couple for 4 years and bought a house together 2 years ago, breaking up shortly after but still living together until they could sell the house.
He has shown me the deed and has given her the house and just walked away, last week. He also just moved out last week.
I believe he is telling me the truth now. I dont think there has been anything between them for a long time. I just dont know if I can move on with him knowing he lied to me daily about his living arrangment, how he was watching tv with, while texting me. I think of all the times he would be outside talking to me and it was her that came out to see what he was doing.
Can someone give me insight? Can you live with your ex for 2 years and be over them. He said it was all about the house. I couldnt live with my ex for years but i have never jointly owned a house with someone. He lied to me when i told him i felt like I was loseing my mind and i had never been insecure. Even when i said, are you living with a girlfriend, in a relationship. I even went so far as to ask if he was gay and in a relationship with his roomate.
I love him but I dont want to be the fool. My heart tells me he is the one but im afraid he will just end up lying to me in the future. Or maybe he is really not over his ex and im the extended rebound?
Thoughts advise? Have you been through this, how did it turn out?
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