One of the biggest reasons me and my SO clicked was because we're both REALLY ambitious people. To the point where we actually have a plan on what we want to do in our lives in terms on careers, money, living in general. I support him in every step of the way in his dreams and he supports me a lot in my dreams of becoming a writer.
The thing I'm concerned about is that I finally have a first draft written (after a lot of procrastination) and I'm going to really put it to the grind in making this book happen. SO supports me and is actually very happy about me doing what I dreamed of doing. I'm only worried that I'm going to get SO invested into making this book right that I'm not going to have a lot of time with my SO in terms of computer and such. I don't want to make it seem like I'm replacing him with working on my novel. I don't want to turn into the workaholic girlfriend/wife! D: It's not just about the novel either. I have plans on putting a lot of things into motion so that I could guarantee what will (hopefully) be a better future for us. And don't get me started on college...
So, for any ambitious members on here: advice?
The thing I'm concerned about is that I finally have a first draft written (after a lot of procrastination) and I'm going to really put it to the grind in making this book happen. SO supports me and is actually very happy about me doing what I dreamed of doing. I'm only worried that I'm going to get SO invested into making this book right that I'm not going to have a lot of time with my SO in terms of computer and such. I don't want to make it seem like I'm replacing him with working on my novel. I don't want to turn into the workaholic girlfriend/wife! D: It's not just about the novel either. I have plans on putting a lot of things into motion so that I could guarantee what will (hopefully) be a better future for us. And don't get me started on college...
So, for any ambitious members on here: advice?
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