Back story: we were good friends back in Middle school and then we graduated and lost contact until about a year ago. He added me on facebook and we started talking and catching up. Talked on the phone a lot, skyped a lot, etc., we were getting really close. He then told me he liked me and asked if he could take me on a proper date when he got home. (he was living on the east coast due to school troubles) I agreed. Fast forward a few months, lots of talking and flirting later, he came home.
I've tried on numerous occasions to plan a meet up but our schedules never seem to sync up. I work three jobs and go to school and he works and goes to school. We are literally 45 minutes away, so the few times I've made it down there (I don't have my own car yet... hence why I am working so much, saving up) he's never been able to hangout. He told me once that if he had his own car he would come see me. I bum rides off a friends or take the bus... lately I've been feeling really confused about this whole situation. I brought up a friends house warming party and I invited him and his reply was "umm okay". when I spoke to him about hopefully getting to hangout soon, his reply was "whatever happens happens is all I'm going to say lol". That really struck a cord with me.
He's super affectionate and shows interest, he's constantly telling me that he likes me and stuff, it's just hard when his words don't match his actions. I'm kind of worried that he may just be stringing me along and I might just be a late night conversation, as my best friend put it, to him. He's been home for 7 months now and he hasn't once tried to see me. He goes to SD with his buddies every weekend... some outside opinions would be nice. :/
I really like this guy a lot, which is a big deal for me since I had a really terrible relationship a few years ago and haven't been interested in anyone since. Is that his way of saying I'm not worth it?
thank you all for your time! I'm so happy to be apart of this community now My friend recommended you guys and said you all were both helpful and caring. <3
I've tried on numerous occasions to plan a meet up but our schedules never seem to sync up. I work three jobs and go to school and he works and goes to school. We are literally 45 minutes away, so the few times I've made it down there (I don't have my own car yet... hence why I am working so much, saving up) he's never been able to hangout. He told me once that if he had his own car he would come see me. I bum rides off a friends or take the bus... lately I've been feeling really confused about this whole situation. I brought up a friends house warming party and I invited him and his reply was "umm okay". when I spoke to him about hopefully getting to hangout soon, his reply was "whatever happens happens is all I'm going to say lol". That really struck a cord with me.
He's super affectionate and shows interest, he's constantly telling me that he likes me and stuff, it's just hard when his words don't match his actions. I'm kind of worried that he may just be stringing me along and I might just be a late night conversation, as my best friend put it, to him. He's been home for 7 months now and he hasn't once tried to see me. He goes to SD with his buddies every weekend... some outside opinions would be nice. :/
I really like this guy a lot, which is a big deal for me since I had a really terrible relationship a few years ago and haven't been interested in anyone since. Is that his way of saying I'm not worth it?
thank you all for your time! I'm so happy to be apart of this community now My friend recommended you guys and said you all were both helpful and caring. <3
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