Its more than likely pre visit nerves with only 33 more days to go but GAH! Sometimes I just want to strangle him. Its like he's acting like one of those sour patch kid commercials where its "sour" then its "sweet" and its driving me up the @!$%* wall (and i'm the one on her period! 
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A bit of background, right after high school I got into a FWB situation and got my heart crushed and I ended up severely depressed. I was used in every single way a person could be and it damaged me a lot. I met Dan years later when I was trying to recover and he put a lot of work into making sure that I was okay every night. He listened to every single dirty and disgusting detail, which most boyfriends wouldn't even want to know.
Anyway, fast forward to now: He made me better, he gained my total trust but of course I was still scared of getting hurt but with every road bump he proves me wrong. Ever since our first visit my exfwb hasn't even crossed my mind but he keeps bringing him up. Nothing too serious but its little things like "Yeah like your ex did" or something similar. Its getting on my damn nerves! I hope he doesn't feel insecure
Like I said though he has been really sweet too...telling me he can't wait until I visit him, how he cant wait for me to meet his friends and that his family might be driving up to meet me while im there. I love him to death but I wish he'd forget my ex like i'm starting to.
)!!A bit of background, right after high school I got into a FWB situation and got my heart crushed and I ended up severely depressed. I was used in every single way a person could be and it damaged me a lot. I met Dan years later when I was trying to recover and he put a lot of work into making sure that I was okay every night. He listened to every single dirty and disgusting detail, which most boyfriends wouldn't even want to know.
Anyway, fast forward to now: He made me better, he gained my total trust but of course I was still scared of getting hurt but with every road bump he proves me wrong. Ever since our first visit my exfwb hasn't even crossed my mind but he keeps bringing him up. Nothing too serious but its little things like "Yeah like your ex did" or something similar. Its getting on my damn nerves! I hope he doesn't feel insecure
Like I said though he has been really sweet too...telling me he can't wait until I visit him, how he cant wait for me to meet his friends and that his family might be driving up to meet me while im there. I love him to death but I wish he'd forget my ex like i'm starting to.
Just address it to him calmly, and ask if there is a specific reason for those remarks. Being so close with eachother, I am sure he wouldn't lie to you about it. If he is feeling insecure/jealous you just have to continue telling and proving him how much you love him, until he gets over it ^^ Good luck!
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