Originally posted by digitalfever
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If people are leaving thier SO's all the time for being shallow all the time, it is sad. I also agreed with it. No emotion involved, just sadness.
A preference over connection is a pretty way to rationalize being shallow. It is okay to be shallow but they should just admit it.
If you were married to your SO some ten years down the road and after a few kids and can't seem to drop the last 30 pounds he leaves you because of his preference of your condition, how will you feel then?
We are supposed to be in this for the long run. As we age, some go bald and some get fat and some have diseases or accidents that steal their attractiveness. I don't personally want a partner that will be dependent upon me meeting all his preferences. I want one that will love me for me.
50 pounds for any decent size guy is not that much weight and is not life threatening at all. It will be hard to lose but he may never lose it. She needs to decide if she is willing to stay with him if he never does. That much is a fact.
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