This is something that has crossed my mind a lot and i thought i was do a thread and get everyone's opinions on the topic as i know we all have our own say.
Last year my eldest brother got married to his Fiance, When they were just BF and GF they got along like a house on fire, She was VERY supportive of when he was injured in Afghanistan she stood by him the whole time. Until they got engaged and she turned into the wicked which of the west, Stopped him from doing a tone of things, Belittled him in front of friends, Got into arguments and even a fight. And i thought to myself *no way will these two ever get married* But what do you know, they set a date which was late year and my brother spent over £23,000 on their wedding. Apart of me was like * Bro, you are so dumb why marry someone who makes your life hell * But obviously he loves her that's why he has married her ...
SOOO ... we all see each-other posts about us complaining about our SO's how much of a jerk they are being, Talking to us like crap, Blow hot and cold. And admittedly you know we all sit back and think 'Wow why is he/she putting up with that' But say a thread they will post next will be 'ENGAGED ' .. would you genuinely be happy for them or would you think they were dump for getting engaged to be married to a person who treats them the way they have told you or bitched to you about.
Just out of curiosity really.
Last year my eldest brother got married to his Fiance, When they were just BF and GF they got along like a house on fire, She was VERY supportive of when he was injured in Afghanistan she stood by him the whole time. Until they got engaged and she turned into the wicked which of the west, Stopped him from doing a tone of things, Belittled him in front of friends, Got into arguments and even a fight. And i thought to myself *no way will these two ever get married* But what do you know, they set a date which was late year and my brother spent over £23,000 on their wedding. Apart of me was like * Bro, you are so dumb why marry someone who makes your life hell * But obviously he loves her that's why he has married her ...
SOOO ... we all see each-other posts about us complaining about our SO's how much of a jerk they are being, Talking to us like crap, Blow hot and cold. And admittedly you know we all sit back and think 'Wow why is he/she putting up with that' But say a thread they will post next will be 'ENGAGED ' .. would you genuinely be happy for them or would you think they were dump for getting engaged to be married to a person who treats them the way they have told you or bitched to you about.
Just out of curiosity really.
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