Its just few days I started thinking about something, but being pretty new to LDRs i thought talkin about it with someone who may have felt the same could be useful
I'm going through a pretty difficult period (not cos of my SO, but cos of some family and past things that give me serious difficulties relating to other people :/) and i happen to feel really lonely. While thinking about it, i noticed i'm lucky cos i get to talk to him throughout the day now and then thanks to instant messages apps, but as we are doin our own things it rarely is a deep conversation and so on. I also noticed I kinda wait unconsciously for him to be home expecting to have some time for us to talk, like... a moment when we have nothing else to focus on except for each other. And that's when I feel lonely if, for example, he has planned to go out or so. Don't get me wrong, I have nothing about him spending time out or anything, it's just i noticed i kinda need to have some time just for us, even if it's just a call or some messages.
So I was wondering if it's just me, cos of my problem, feeling this or if you guys have some 'set days' where you know you are gonna have some time with your SOs despite the distance
I'm going through a pretty difficult period (not cos of my SO, but cos of some family and past things that give me serious difficulties relating to other people :/) and i happen to feel really lonely. While thinking about it, i noticed i'm lucky cos i get to talk to him throughout the day now and then thanks to instant messages apps, but as we are doin our own things it rarely is a deep conversation and so on. I also noticed I kinda wait unconsciously for him to be home expecting to have some time for us to talk, like... a moment when we have nothing else to focus on except for each other. And that's when I feel lonely if, for example, he has planned to go out or so. Don't get me wrong, I have nothing about him spending time out or anything, it's just i noticed i kinda need to have some time just for us, even if it's just a call or some messages.
So I was wondering if it's just me, cos of my problem, feeling this or if you guys have some 'set days' where you know you are gonna have some time with your SOs despite the distance
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