We're on a break...

[Verojoon]

For those of you who have been following up with the up and downs and the drama of our relationship, we are on a break now. We are going non-communication until October 1st. I think this will lead up to a permanent break but we've tried breaking up so often and the heightened emotions just lead us back to each other each time... I thought this may be a more calm and subdued way to deal with it. I told him he's free to date other people, but he says he won't... he'll just concentrate on his life and figuring out if we can make things work... I have no hope anymore... He took it all away from me, again. There is just so often that he can tell me he doesn't know what he wants before I have to stand up for myself and say that I DO know what I want...

Who knows, maybe the time apart will do us good, but I doubt it... I am feeling more and more detached with every passing day... I think we finally found a way to leave each other without drama or theatrics... just in a calm, gradual process...

I know the hurt will hit me later, but that is part of breaking up... I know a part of me will always love me, but I think I'll manage to not be in love with him anymore... When I think back on us, I won't idealize the relationship or concentrate on the negative. I'll see it for what it was: One of my life's big love stories that helped me define who I am. This relationship made me a better person, but I think it has reached it's end point...

I just wish I was excited to embark on the next adventure, but I'm not. I think I'll need to be alone for a while...

[Moon]

I'm really sorry to hear this, but you're right, if you know what you want from life and he can't decide, you need to follow your path, even if it's alone. You'll be OK, just remember to be kind to yourself.

[Kiyama]

I'm so sorry to hear about that
I sounds like you made the right decision. Take it easy and be good to yourself. It'll hurt a lot but eventually, you'll start healing. Sending many hugs your way.

[Mims27]

I'm sorry to hear this Vero.
If you need to talk you can send me a message. Not sure how much help I could provide but I'm a good listener.
*hugs*

[Black_Halloween]

Like everybody else said, if he cant chose then you need to stand up and chose for him. Im sorry this is happening sweetie. <3

[digitalfever]

I think you've been more than patient and I really hope this break gives you both some perspective. You're strong, smart and damn well worth more than this.

[elina]

Sending good thoughts your way. Focus on yourself, and you'll be alright

[blankita719]

Sending hugs - and just keep taking care of you

[Ejoriah]

I'd like to add to the hugs, too. Looking out for yourself is the right thing to do.

[Chris516]

I sort of know the feeling. I am trying to save the relationship. But she says she can't give me what I want, yet she says she loves me. Then she won't tell me what 'she thinks' I want. She also doesn't communicate. I am getting used to feeling detached.

[Kristin91]

I'm so sorry it's come to this for you guys. At least you're able to focus on yourself now and move on from all of this!

[LittleBox]

You're entitled to a little "me time" take care of yourself especially when the reality of it all begins to sink in.

[TwoThree]

I think you've been more than patient and I really hope this break gives you both some perspective. You're strong, smart and damn well worth more than this.

Basically this.

[MattDavies86]

Sorry your going through this, but if it's for the best then I am kinda happy for you! Always here if you want a chat =)

[dizzyupthemeg]

Adding to all the hugs. Take some time to focus on you. It's well deserved at this point.