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I'm sorry That is rough. It is really nice to have this forum, because other people on here do know exactly how you feel! I was supposed to see my boyfriend today for the first time in 8 months, and then he had a family emergency come up and he couldn't come. I was so bummed! I just laid on my couch and went to sleep. Then I started to think about the good times we've had, and the reasons I love him and now I feel a little better. My heart still hurts a ton, but gratitude for what I do have somehow makes it a bit easier. Hope that helps.
Oh yes, yes and YES! I am yet to meet my SO in person but sometimes the longing just gets so overwhelming. A lot of the time I can deal with it pretty well but then other times that intense desire to be with him just gets the better of me. I can imagine that it's only going to get harder after we've actually met and have to be apart again though but I try not to think about that too much. I try to focus on the fact that I am lucky to actually have someone so special to long for (though I'd rather just be with him but you know what I mean)!
I know exactly what you mean. We are apart for 8 months this time and I have another 4,5 to go. Some days are better than others I guess, but at the moment it just hurts so badly. Hang in there !
Yes longing sometimes is killing me, sometimes its normal. I just feel and have biggest hope that everything will be ok at the end we will be with our lavs for as long as we are in love with them !
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