Hello all. I'm feeling really hopeless and scared about where things stand right now, so I'm just looking for some comforting words
This week has been hell for me--to put it simply. Just a very bad week overall. Unfortunately, I've let it get out of control to the point of fighting constantly ALL week with my boyfriend. It blew up and almost ended in a breakup last night. Last night, after days and days of fighting and coldness between us, around midnight I tried to sit down and really talk to him, feeling tired of everything and just trying to fix things. He then basically blew me off, telling me he didn't have time, he had work to do. I understand this...he's busy all the time. So I said "okay," told him goodnight, and said I was just going to bed. A couple minutes later he tries texting me a couple times and calling me, all of which I ignore (I regret doing this now). I finally answer him and he then just tells me I'm annoying sometimes and says "That's it, now go to sleep." This just set me off again, and I said "really? That's what you wanted to say to me?" It then leads into another huge fight where things were said that I wish I could take back. He also said "I'm sorry I let myself get into another serious relationship." This was a slap in the face to me. After he said this, I told him if he wanted to break up to just do it right now. After a couple minutes of making him feel like crap, he says he takes it back and that he didn't mean it. I asked him again if he wants to break up with me, to just do it. He kept saying "no, I still love you, but I don't know how we're going to fix this." I went to bed shortly after this, so nothing was fixed at all.
I really have no idea what to do. We've been going at this for days with no end in sight. I'm not tempted to try and fix things now because I'm assuming he'll just blow me off again like he did last night. I wish I had the heart to suggest taking a break, but I'm scared of that just leading to a breakup, and I know if I do that, I'll miss him a couple days later. I don't know what to do I guess I'm just looking for some comfort right now Thanks everyone
This week has been hell for me--to put it simply. Just a very bad week overall. Unfortunately, I've let it get out of control to the point of fighting constantly ALL week with my boyfriend. It blew up and almost ended in a breakup last night. Last night, after days and days of fighting and coldness between us, around midnight I tried to sit down and really talk to him, feeling tired of everything and just trying to fix things. He then basically blew me off, telling me he didn't have time, he had work to do. I understand this...he's busy all the time. So I said "okay," told him goodnight, and said I was just going to bed. A couple minutes later he tries texting me a couple times and calling me, all of which I ignore (I regret doing this now). I finally answer him and he then just tells me I'm annoying sometimes and says "That's it, now go to sleep." This just set me off again, and I said "really? That's what you wanted to say to me?" It then leads into another huge fight where things were said that I wish I could take back. He also said "I'm sorry I let myself get into another serious relationship." This was a slap in the face to me. After he said this, I told him if he wanted to break up to just do it right now. After a couple minutes of making him feel like crap, he says he takes it back and that he didn't mean it. I asked him again if he wants to break up with me, to just do it. He kept saying "no, I still love you, but I don't know how we're going to fix this." I went to bed shortly after this, so nothing was fixed at all.
I really have no idea what to do. We've been going at this for days with no end in sight. I'm not tempted to try and fix things now because I'm assuming he'll just blow me off again like he did last night. I wish I had the heart to suggest taking a break, but I'm scared of that just leading to a breakup, and I know if I do that, I'll miss him a couple days later. I don't know what to do I guess I'm just looking for some comfort right now Thanks everyone
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