My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 1/2 years. After almost 3 years of being in a long distance relationship we are finally closing the distance in December of this year. My boyfriend is moving from California to Missouri where I am from. I cannot even begin to describe how excited and happy I am!!! I have been waiting a very long time for this and cannot wait for our future together out in Missouri! There is definitely a part of me though, that feels an extreme amount of guilt. I feel as if I am taking him away from his family and friends who love him so much. Just the thought of him telling his very young nieces and nephews, who love him more than anything, that he will be moving 2000 miles away from them absolutely breaks my heart. I often find myself getting very emotional when thinking about this. I have talked to my boyfriend and he tells me every time that I should never feel guilty and that he isn't saying goodbye to his family and friends forever, he is simply saying see you later, but I still cannot seem to shake this guilty feeling I have. So my question is did you feel this way as well? And if so, how did you deal with it?
Thank you,
Marisa
Thank you,
Marisa
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