I wasn't sure where to stick this..here or the adult so I won't get graphic..

[Lunar Snow]

Spending some time getting some memories of you and your SO doing other stuff then each other could be fun and help strengthen the bond between you. Going to the movies or to a restaurent, taking walks, going to the zoo and being able to do something else then sit in front of the laptop at home is a welcome change of pace in my opinion. A well rounded visit with a little bit of everything throw in to it will provide for some good memories.
But you should do what you want to do not what you feel like everybody else wants you to do. If staying in bed all day is what you want, by all means pitch a tent there and don't leave until you absolutely have to.

I agree. My SO and I like to spend time being intimate and go with the flow on other things, mostly. However, we had in mind that there were some specific things we wanted to experience during the visit, so it wasn't a schedule so much as thinking of must-see or must-do events, and tried to fit these in. I enjoy being intimate and I am a homebody, so it was nice to chill around the house, too. However, I was also really grateful to have the memories of where he goes to school, who his best friends are, what his family is like, where he likes to regularly hang out, and how he acts in his natural environment and around other people (as a first visit, it was really important for me to see that our relationship and his feelings for me could be shown or present in the rest of his life and not just on a computer screen). It was a really welcome change to be able to go to on a "normal" (restaurant, museum, movies, park, etc....it wasn't so much what we were doing, but getting a chance to have bonding time together in social situations that didn't have to be all about being physical or all about talking) date with him, too. (On his first visit to see me, we had planned to attend a graduation luncheon at a really fancy hotel and I had tickets for it far in advance. Both he and I were pretty excited to go, but we ended up missing it because we slept in since we had spent all night being otherwise occupied, if you know what I mean, as well as not knowing that the time was changing over. So, I guess that I maybe have one time that intimate adventures impacted something else we were going to share together. For him, he really doesn't like being late and, so, there were a few times when I was there that he was maybe annoyed we had spent too much time in the day being intimate or were too sleepy from lots of it at night and missed out on other things to share. ...but then we also like those memories of intimacy!).

[hellojamie]

My boyfriend and I only ever get short visits. Unless it's a holiday or something special, I only get to see him from Late Friday/Early Saturday until Sunday evening. We always spend a while getting our groove on and a lot of time just lazing around and cuddling, since I love to do that and we don't get to do it often. We also go out to eat at our favorite restaurants, sometimes see our friends, and usually end up doing a little shopping. If I need to buy something I'll wait until he comes down so we can go shopping together. It's just those little things that we don't get to do on a day-to-day basis that are really nice to get to share together.

The last time he visited I didn't tell anyone he was coming, made myself completely unavailable to the world, and we just spent the whole time together. It was really nice. Like others have said, just do whatever you feel like. Don't stress about whether or not you're making the most of your time. It just matters that you're together and enjoying each other.