Leap of faith

[oxytocinbite]

My boyfriend and I were long distance for about a year, I was supposed to leave back to New Hampshire in December but my so mentioned me moving in permanently.

I thought about it, I hate living in New Hampshire..my mother is abusive and it has nothing I want or need for my future.

Florida has everything I want and need, my boyfriend, better college, better job opportunities. The best part is I will finally be happy. I have not told my mother yet but I will.

I am very happy to have such an amazing boyfriend, he means so much to me

The distance is over though and don't worry if we do not work out I have a safety net..my mother x) Goodluck to everyone and I will still go on here so yay.

[sarahjane1992]

That's exciting! Congrats! Wish you and your SO the best.

[maja]

sounds like a no brainer congrats!

[80anthea]

Congratulations, I hope everything works out

[Rachelm920]

Congrats! I've been considering that leap forever it seems but I am afraid of all the "What if's" involved... One of these days I think I'll do it, but IDK when

[sarahjane1992]

My SO and I are hoping to close the distance next December. There are big things we still have to figure out. I'm excited, ready and a little nervous to take the leap of faith too. <3

[Mims27]

That's great news! Sometimes you just have to find what makes YOU happy and just go for it!

[Laural007]

I wish the two of you the best of luck

[Irina_Linn]

congrats and best of luck with college and all your business! glad for your good news

[oxytocinbite]

Thank you everyone, it's really awesome. It still feels like I am leaving when I am not x)

[kria]

Congrats to the both of you!! I wish you both all of the happiness in the world!

[oxytocinbite]

Congrats! I've been considering that leap forever it seems but I am afraid of all the "What if's" involved... One of these days I think I'll do it, but IDK when

yeah..I know what you mean. I am still actually going through some "what ifs" since it happened so quickly but if you are happy together then sometimes you have to risk it..it's better then not trying and regretting everything. Then at least you know you tried.

[Ejoriah]

Sorry to be a bit of a downer but aren't you worried that your back-up plan is the mother you say to be abusive? How reliable of a back-up plan is that?

I really hope it all works out for you (I really do!), as someone who moved 10,000 miles for a guy and then have it not work out, I know the importance of a solid back up plan. I managed to pull through without a solid support system here but it's rough.

[princessmaria]

I hope it all works out for you! Good luck!!

[oxytocinbite]

Sorry to be a bit of a downer but aren't you worried that your back-up plan is the mother you say to be abusive? How reliable of a back-up plan is that?

I really hope it all works out for you (I really do!), as someone who moved 10,000 miles for a guy and then have it not work out, I know the importance of a solid back up plan. I managed to pull through without a solid support system here but it's rough.

Yeah, well even if I did decide to go I would be leaving back to my mother,either way that would be my only choice unless I wanted to stay with my gram. I am worried about it all as well, I know some of my family would let me stay with them.

Although I do know Michael would never kick me out if we break up and his parents are good people, I mean if I get closer to my friends here they could even me a temporary backup plan. Everything should be fine.

I'm sorry about what happened to you, that must be hard.