Its been a week now since I've heard from my SO and I have no idea what is going on. The last time I heard from him was Saturday (08/14/2010). His dad brought him up with him to his old hometown (Lethbridge) and he was supposed to go fishing etc. I spoke with him on the phone and the last thing he told me was that he was going to go wake-boarding with an old guy friend of his, so I said alright and he told me he would call me after he puts minutes on his cell phone we said our I love yous and talk to you later.
I didn't hear from him that night so I was like ok hes more then likely still with his friend so I called his cell phone to see if it would be on and he did put minutes on his phone like he told me but his phone was off (as if it was dead) so I called his Dad and he told me that he is still out and he should be back later on in the evening so I said alright he dad then said he was going to be leaving in the morning and my SO would be staying up there for a week or how ever long so my SO can start looking for work and focusing on his music spend time with his old friends etc. I freaked out when he told me but I tried to remain calm.
I kept trying to call throughout that weekend and no ringing or anything, I called his dad on monday and his dad told me that my SO needs this time to get his life straightened out (my SO's dad has been a bit fed up with him living with them and not working etc -long story-) so I understood but I told his dad I would still like to talk to him and if I could maybe get the number to where he is staying and his dad told me BASICALLY no in so many words. So I let it go and he PROMISED me he would try to get ahold of my SO and tell him to call me, wensday came and my SO's phone was on for a bit but then lost all the minutes (the phone plan he has with rogers wastes minutes even with checking voicemail) so now he has no minutes what so ever. I spoke with his dad this past saturday and talked to him and was asking him whats really going on and he kept insisting to me that my SO really needs this for himself and that its a great time for him to meet new people and get a job and focus on his music.
I asked his dad if he called his friend to let him know to tell my SO to call me and he told me he "forgot" to call. he said that he would do it this time and that he did get a message on facebook from my SO saying that he needs more minutes. I told his dad I haven't gotten a reply or anything from my SO his dad kinda shook it off, my impression is his dad doesn't care and I feel like this is a way of his dad trying to seperate us for good because we have been going at this distance for 2 years now (Oct 4th will be two years). and we haven't met yet.
I feel overly confused and stuck I know my SO hasn't checked his facebook because he always changes his status's/pictures etc and nothing, I haven't gotten a reply from any emails or messages or calls at all. Our status is still active on his facebook etc. Its been a week and I am going crazy in confusion. I doubt his dad will tell me anything at all. My SO normally ALWAYS communicates with me or replies and this time I just have NO IDEA what is going on. I really need you guys please help!
I didn't hear from him that night so I was like ok hes more then likely still with his friend so I called his cell phone to see if it would be on and he did put minutes on his phone like he told me but his phone was off (as if it was dead) so I called his Dad and he told me that he is still out and he should be back later on in the evening so I said alright he dad then said he was going to be leaving in the morning and my SO would be staying up there for a week or how ever long so my SO can start looking for work and focusing on his music spend time with his old friends etc. I freaked out when he told me but I tried to remain calm.
I kept trying to call throughout that weekend and no ringing or anything, I called his dad on monday and his dad told me that my SO needs this time to get his life straightened out (my SO's dad has been a bit fed up with him living with them and not working etc -long story-) so I understood but I told his dad I would still like to talk to him and if I could maybe get the number to where he is staying and his dad told me BASICALLY no in so many words. So I let it go and he PROMISED me he would try to get ahold of my SO and tell him to call me, wensday came and my SO's phone was on for a bit but then lost all the minutes (the phone plan he has with rogers wastes minutes even with checking voicemail) so now he has no minutes what so ever. I spoke with his dad this past saturday and talked to him and was asking him whats really going on and he kept insisting to me that my SO really needs this for himself and that its a great time for him to meet new people and get a job and focus on his music.
I asked his dad if he called his friend to let him know to tell my SO to call me and he told me he "forgot" to call. he said that he would do it this time and that he did get a message on facebook from my SO saying that he needs more minutes. I told his dad I haven't gotten a reply or anything from my SO his dad kinda shook it off, my impression is his dad doesn't care and I feel like this is a way of his dad trying to seperate us for good because we have been going at this distance for 2 years now (Oct 4th will be two years). and we haven't met yet.
I feel overly confused and stuck I know my SO hasn't checked his facebook because he always changes his status's/pictures etc and nothing, I haven't gotten a reply from any emails or messages or calls at all. Our status is still active on his facebook etc. Its been a week and I am going crazy in confusion. I doubt his dad will tell me anything at all. My SO normally ALWAYS communicates with me or replies and this time I just have NO IDEA what is going on. I really need you guys please help!
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