Hey guys, how are you!...
Well this is what is happening with my So and I.. while the time goes we begin to talk less and less and less by Skype.. The last week we didn't talk at all... I know he is busy, he works, and study, and play hockey and I understand that he maybe can't find time to talk with me.. but this is crossing the line.. I understand him, but I think he is not undestandig me, he is not viewing the things from my perspective I think I will become insane... It's like he is not trying to do anything to find the time for me... The last thing I told to him (by facebook) was:
"Don't forget u have girlfriend... I know you are busy, I know you are working, I know you have a life there and many things to do, I know you will start school and you will have to make homework.. I know you have to train.. to play hockey... bla bla bla.. I understand you, but.. you have girfriend too.. I know I'm far away from you, but I still deserving my place as your girlfriend. I know we can't talk everyday, I know you can't send messages.. but.. there is facebook, hotmail.. I'm not asking you too much, I'm just asking you to show me that you care me, that I'm important for you, that I'm part of you.. I just wanna feel loved.. there are some days that I don't know about you... and I feel bad.. is like.. sometimes I think this is a joke for you or maybe you think that everything is right... so.. now I'm telling you.. in not right.. both of us have to make an effort.. this is not easy, and it will not be easy to handle a distance relationship but we can if we give the best of each other... I think I'm giving my best... maybe you think you are giving your best too... mm I don't know.. just think deeply about it... and.. we will talk when you will have the time.. "
I don't know how to handle this situation.. I love him! but this is affecting me to much I don't feel the same energy to handle the relationship, cause it's like I'm the only one who is giving here...
Help me please... I need advices
Well this is what is happening with my So and I.. while the time goes we begin to talk less and less and less by Skype.. The last week we didn't talk at all... I know he is busy, he works, and study, and play hockey and I understand that he maybe can't find time to talk with me.. but this is crossing the line.. I understand him, but I think he is not undestandig me, he is not viewing the things from my perspective I think I will become insane... It's like he is not trying to do anything to find the time for me... The last thing I told to him (by facebook) was:
"Don't forget u have girlfriend... I know you are busy, I know you are working, I know you have a life there and many things to do, I know you will start school and you will have to make homework.. I know you have to train.. to play hockey... bla bla bla.. I understand you, but.. you have girfriend too.. I know I'm far away from you, but I still deserving my place as your girlfriend. I know we can't talk everyday, I know you can't send messages.. but.. there is facebook, hotmail.. I'm not asking you too much, I'm just asking you to show me that you care me, that I'm important for you, that I'm part of you.. I just wanna feel loved.. there are some days that I don't know about you... and I feel bad.. is like.. sometimes I think this is a joke for you or maybe you think that everything is right... so.. now I'm telling you.. in not right.. both of us have to make an effort.. this is not easy, and it will not be easy to handle a distance relationship but we can if we give the best of each other... I think I'm giving my best... maybe you think you are giving your best too... mm I don't know.. just think deeply about it... and.. we will talk when you will have the time.. "
I don't know how to handle this situation.. I love him! but this is affecting me to much I don't feel the same energy to handle the relationship, cause it's like I'm the only one who is giving here...
Help me please... I need advices
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