For the people who have read my last blog about breaking up because hear almost nothing from him;
It didn't happen. I spoke to him when he was here and I asked him if he was too busy for a relationship. He promissed he'd try his best with the contact, came up with a skype- day and said he could text during work because it wasn't THAT busy (hmm, why didn't he do that before?)
That was 2 weeks ago and nothing has changed. Still only one message per day at 9 in the evening. On skype-day he didn't have his internet topped up (its broad band) so he called instead. It got disconected after 2 minutes. At that moment I was so sick of it and texted him that I didn't want this relationship anymore. I asked him if I should send his ring, necklace and Xmas present back.
He replied that the knew it was his fault and we didn't get to talk much but it was just bad luck with his internet. Next morning he just acted like nothing happend and texted 'good morning hun, hows your day, bla bla' (which is stange because he never texts me in the morning?)
I ignored most of his 'hey hun' texts that week and when I did reply it was short and business-like. Haven't heard from him since friday night though.
He's in London now with a friend. I thought it would be mean to text him if he understood what I said last week to make clear its over. But I have so many 2nd thoughts about asking that. A few times I had set my mind to breaking up today when he's back in Ireland. But then I felt so bad about the break up that I automatically thought: "I could just say nothing. its not over yet. No need to feel bad"
I don't know what to do in general now... Should I text him like nothing happend? Should I wait until he texts? Should I just tell him its over? Do I need to tell him a fourth time he needs to change his communication skills?
I am so lost, my feelings and thoughts are all over the place and I can't make a decision and stick to it
I would really like some advice from you guys!
It didn't happen. I spoke to him when he was here and I asked him if he was too busy for a relationship. He promissed he'd try his best with the contact, came up with a skype- day and said he could text during work because it wasn't THAT busy (hmm, why didn't he do that before?)
That was 2 weeks ago and nothing has changed. Still only one message per day at 9 in the evening. On skype-day he didn't have his internet topped up (its broad band) so he called instead. It got disconected after 2 minutes. At that moment I was so sick of it and texted him that I didn't want this relationship anymore. I asked him if I should send his ring, necklace and Xmas present back.
He replied that the knew it was his fault and we didn't get to talk much but it was just bad luck with his internet. Next morning he just acted like nothing happend and texted 'good morning hun, hows your day, bla bla' (which is stange because he never texts me in the morning?)
I ignored most of his 'hey hun' texts that week and when I did reply it was short and business-like. Haven't heard from him since friday night though.
He's in London now with a friend. I thought it would be mean to text him if he understood what I said last week to make clear its over. But I have so many 2nd thoughts about asking that. A few times I had set my mind to breaking up today when he's back in Ireland. But then I felt so bad about the break up that I automatically thought: "I could just say nothing. its not over yet. No need to feel bad"
I don't know what to do in general now... Should I text him like nothing happend? Should I wait until he texts? Should I just tell him its over? Do I need to tell him a fourth time he needs to change his communication skills?
I am so lost, my feelings and thoughts are all over the place and I can't make a decision and stick to it
I would really like some advice from you guys!
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