Dear LFAD Friends,
As of December 10, 2013 I am no longer in a long distance with my SO. Here is what happened between us:
I came home from taking a chemistry final and I felt so happy and knew I aced my final! My SO called me and we were talking about our day, then I asked him:
Me:"What are you thinking?"
Him:"Us."
Me, "Good things about us?"
Him, "No."
Me:" Then what."
Him: "Guess?"
Me: "Breaking up?"
Him: "Yes."
Me: Complete silence for a minute.
Me: "Why are you thinking about breaking up?"
Him: "Because I feel like I'm dating a teenager and you haven't done anything to prove you're changing, and I feel like I own you."
Me: "Are you serious?" I have put so much into this relationship! From standing up and telling my parents about us to changing my attitude how I act whenever you are hanging out with your female bestfriend."
Him: "No I had to tell you to tell you to do those things."
Me: "I did those things on my own to fight for us and change for me, not you. I feel like I'm putting so much into this relationship and getting NOTHING BACK. I'M TIRED!"
Him: Hung up.
That was the end of our conversation, we have not talked since. He did text me Merry Christmas yesterday but I did not text him back. If he was a man that he claimed he was, then he should have told me how he felt instead of making me guess. Now that's some teenager behavior to me. For the past couple weeks I have been working on getting over him and moving forward. I have to admit it is an emotional ride!
I don't think I will every be in a long distance relationship. Long distance relationships are not for everyone.
I just want to say thank you everyone for your concern, comments, and feedback. I appreciate them all.
As of December 10, 2013 I am no longer in a long distance with my SO. Here is what happened between us:
I came home from taking a chemistry final and I felt so happy and knew I aced my final! My SO called me and we were talking about our day, then I asked him:
Me:"What are you thinking?"
Him:"Us."
Me, "Good things about us?"
Him, "No."
Me:" Then what."
Him: "Guess?"
Me: "Breaking up?"
Him: "Yes."
Me: Complete silence for a minute.
Me: "Why are you thinking about breaking up?"
Him: "Because I feel like I'm dating a teenager and you haven't done anything to prove you're changing, and I feel like I own you."
Me: "Are you serious?" I have put so much into this relationship! From standing up and telling my parents about us to changing my attitude how I act whenever you are hanging out with your female bestfriend."
Him: "No I had to tell you to tell you to do those things."
Me: "I did those things on my own to fight for us and change for me, not you. I feel like I'm putting so much into this relationship and getting NOTHING BACK. I'M TIRED!"
Him: Hung up.
That was the end of our conversation, we have not talked since. He did text me Merry Christmas yesterday but I did not text him back. If he was a man that he claimed he was, then he should have told me how he felt instead of making me guess. Now that's some teenager behavior to me. For the past couple weeks I have been working on getting over him and moving forward. I have to admit it is an emotional ride!
I don't think I will every be in a long distance relationship. Long distance relationships are not for everyone.
I just want to say thank you everyone for your concern, comments, and feedback. I appreciate them all.
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<3 xxx
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