for those who don't know when they will see their SO

[xanzbarr]

I understand this. I live with my mom and we suffer a lot because of other people. her being diabetic and not able to get it under control, I'm a bit stuck on my end. I can't stand the thought of leaving her and something happening because i wasn't there... We've pretty much decided that when the time comes my SO is coming to me. And eventually, we'll go our own way. He doesn't mind, as he is dying to go somewhere new and get out of his state. haha

youre in a tough situation too. Right now the ticket thing isnt reasonable. I already have save for a ticket to Florida for August because I am going to be a Grandmother then...also he has a very low income at present..worse than mine which is social security.
We have plans of him coming to me as soon as he can. so its not all completely up in the air. and we talk in some capacity every day. thanks for all the answers I have gotten . It helps me to come here to this site. PS it is soooo cold here right now...we lost our water for a while...bleah. and the car doors were frozen shut. but neighbors are helping out...so that is good. Also when he gets here he wants to help me with mom which will be good too.