The title is pretty straight forward and to the point.
My SO and I have been having issues for several months now. We began to grow apart and began arguing a LOT. At the time I decided that I would try to work through the issues we were having. We struggled over the next several weeks and again, got to the point where although we were starting to patch things up and be a semi normal somewhat happy LDR couple again, We ended up falling right back into our old patterns. I got to the point where I was fed up. I quit calling her and I quit texting her. If she texted me, I wouldn't answer back for several hours or sometimes even a day later, if I answered back at all. When she would call, again I ignored her and only talked to her occasionally when I actually had the strength to put on a happy face and talk to her. Just for the record, so we're all clear I understand that I shouldn't of played the "quiet" game or the "I'm mad at you, so I'm going to intentionally ignore your texts and phone calls" game but it's the only way I was able to get through to her that things aren't working, put in the effort or this is it. Our nightly and daily phone calls stopped and our texting became a rarity. Anyway.. Back on point. We're officially done. I would be lying to everybody here if I told you I wasn't hurt or upset, because I am. I wish we could of worked things out and fixed the issues we were having, but we just couldn't. At the end of the day I think it came down to us being in 2 different places in our lives and having 2 different sets of needs. Which resulted in a lot of frustration and added tension for both parties. It sucks and it hurts... I really wish and hope for the best for her and her future adventures and relationships. I hope she finds happiness and I'm sorry I couldn't give her what she was looking for.
My SO and I have been having issues for several months now. We began to grow apart and began arguing a LOT. At the time I decided that I would try to work through the issues we were having. We struggled over the next several weeks and again, got to the point where although we were starting to patch things up and be a semi normal somewhat happy LDR couple again, We ended up falling right back into our old patterns. I got to the point where I was fed up. I quit calling her and I quit texting her. If she texted me, I wouldn't answer back for several hours or sometimes even a day later, if I answered back at all. When she would call, again I ignored her and only talked to her occasionally when I actually had the strength to put on a happy face and talk to her. Just for the record, so we're all clear I understand that I shouldn't of played the "quiet" game or the "I'm mad at you, so I'm going to intentionally ignore your texts and phone calls" game but it's the only way I was able to get through to her that things aren't working, put in the effort or this is it. Our nightly and daily phone calls stopped and our texting became a rarity. Anyway.. Back on point. We're officially done. I would be lying to everybody here if I told you I wasn't hurt or upset, because I am. I wish we could of worked things out and fixed the issues we were having, but we just couldn't. At the end of the day I think it came down to us being in 2 different places in our lives and having 2 different sets of needs. Which resulted in a lot of frustration and added tension for both parties. It sucks and it hurts... I really wish and hope for the best for her and her future adventures and relationships. I hope she finds happiness and I'm sorry I couldn't give her what she was looking for.
Take care of yourself.
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