I have been in a long distance relationship for about four months... My boyfriend had to move away a year ago but returns here occasionally.
Our relationship had been going well. Last time he visited we had a great time together (this was about two months back) and our communication has been improving since.
He has been trying to move back but is having no luck with finding a job. A few weeks ago he got a bit down about it and has been very distant since.
He was visiting this weekend but hasn't even made time to see me... He spent all time with his friends. I pushed him to know what was up and he said he was figuring stuff out and 'I'm ok with things if you are but if I can't come back what do we do'
I said we probably need to talk but I'm not sure I understand. He was the one pushing for the relationship in the first place, and everything was going so well up until the other week. He was the one who was counting down the days until we would see each other and now we haven't... I feel pretty rejected
Can anyone else in a LDR help from their own experience? There must be a way to make it work?
Our relationship had been going well. Last time he visited we had a great time together (this was about two months back) and our communication has been improving since.
He has been trying to move back but is having no luck with finding a job. A few weeks ago he got a bit down about it and has been very distant since.
He was visiting this weekend but hasn't even made time to see me... He spent all time with his friends. I pushed him to know what was up and he said he was figuring stuff out and 'I'm ok with things if you are but if I can't come back what do we do'
I said we probably need to talk but I'm not sure I understand. He was the one pushing for the relationship in the first place, and everything was going so well up until the other week. He was the one who was counting down the days until we would see each other and now we haven't... I feel pretty rejected
Can anyone else in a LDR help from their own experience? There must be a way to make it work?
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