So I need some advice...
My boyfriend is amazing and I love him so much. Recently, I've been feeling really insecure about myself. I am 24, but I have a very youthful appearance...a lot of people guess me to be 12-15 years old. I know some people may think looking younger then your age is a good thing..but I am a woman now and I get tired of being looked at as a little girl!
My boyfriend says I am cute often...but he doesn't really tell me I look sexy or hot. There is nothing wrong with cute...but it just makes me feel like a little girl or teenager. When I ask him if I am sexy, he says "you are"....but it's not the same. Sometimes, I wish he would just tell me I look sexy! I want to feel his passion and attraction to me. He is very good to me and has not really done anything wrong, but I feel frustrated.
I know I shouldn't rely on him to feel sexy, but it would help boost my confidence
My question is: How can I talk to him about this without sounding ungrateful for how good he treats me..I don't want to sound picky or demanding or make him feel bad that he doesn't make me feel sexy.
Thanks in advance!
My boyfriend is amazing and I love him so much. Recently, I've been feeling really insecure about myself. I am 24, but I have a very youthful appearance...a lot of people guess me to be 12-15 years old. I know some people may think looking younger then your age is a good thing..but I am a woman now and I get tired of being looked at as a little girl!
My boyfriend says I am cute often...but he doesn't really tell me I look sexy or hot. There is nothing wrong with cute...but it just makes me feel like a little girl or teenager. When I ask him if I am sexy, he says "you are"....but it's not the same. Sometimes, I wish he would just tell me I look sexy! I want to feel his passion and attraction to me. He is very good to me and has not really done anything wrong, but I feel frustrated.
I know I shouldn't rely on him to feel sexy, but it would help boost my confidence
My question is: How can I talk to him about this without sounding ungrateful for how good he treats me..I don't want to sound picky or demanding or make him feel bad that he doesn't make me feel sexy.
Thanks in advance!
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