Hi guys!
Me and my other have known each other for over a year and we've been a couple for 5 months..(it's our 2nd relationship) We met at a penpal site btw..
We talk about everything about ourselves. And he's the only person that I can lean on when I have a hard time(even though we haven't met yet) We even started calling each other and we both felt we've become closer than before.
The problem is the only picture that I have is the one on the penpal site he posted 2 years so I asked him for a new one. He said he'll tell his instagram account once he makes it. A few weeks later I asked him for his account and he said "noneofyourbusiness"(like a joke) I thought maybe he isn't ready to tell me so I decided to ask him later on the phone, which was 2 days ago. We were talking on the phone being lovey dovey and then I asked him why won't he let me know his account and he suddenly stopped talking and told me to go to bed. I got upset so I hung up the phone. And when I woke up I sent him a message saying that I'm sorry if I made him feel bad. But really, am I the one who did wrong? Anyways, no reply. The next day, I sent him another saying "seems you haven't read my text yet. Hope you do soon today" and still, no reply. It's been 2 days and to me it feels like 2 weeks.
He's never done this kind of "silent treatment" before.(if that's what it is) We'd been so lovey dovey especially during this month and him acting like this just makes me go nuts. Should I wait till he texts back? If he does, what should I tell him? I love him so much but sometimes I feel like he's my emotion controller and I just don't know what to do..
BTW the last time we called he said that he doesn't know what kind of girl I am since we haven't met in person but from what he can gather through our talks he thinks I'm cool and cute. And he also said he feels insecure sometimes but he won't tell me what he's insecure about. Do you think this could be a reason why he won't let me know his account?
Oh and I don't think he'll cheat on me 'cause he had been cheated on last year by his ex and his dad. But he told me a few weeks ago that he misses having intercourse so much but he said he could contain himself. I'm just so confused right now and I really want to communicate with him but I don't think he'll reply.
We've had some fights in the past but he never gave me the silent treatment before.
Me and my other have known each other for over a year and we've been a couple for 5 months..(it's our 2nd relationship) We met at a penpal site btw..
We talk about everything about ourselves. And he's the only person that I can lean on when I have a hard time(even though we haven't met yet) We even started calling each other and we both felt we've become closer than before.
The problem is the only picture that I have is the one on the penpal site he posted 2 years so I asked him for a new one. He said he'll tell his instagram account once he makes it. A few weeks later I asked him for his account and he said "noneofyourbusiness"(like a joke) I thought maybe he isn't ready to tell me so I decided to ask him later on the phone, which was 2 days ago. We were talking on the phone being lovey dovey and then I asked him why won't he let me know his account and he suddenly stopped talking and told me to go to bed. I got upset so I hung up the phone. And when I woke up I sent him a message saying that I'm sorry if I made him feel bad. But really, am I the one who did wrong? Anyways, no reply. The next day, I sent him another saying "seems you haven't read my text yet. Hope you do soon today" and still, no reply. It's been 2 days and to me it feels like 2 weeks.
He's never done this kind of "silent treatment" before.(if that's what it is) We'd been so lovey dovey especially during this month and him acting like this just makes me go nuts. Should I wait till he texts back? If he does, what should I tell him? I love him so much but sometimes I feel like he's my emotion controller and I just don't know what to do..
BTW the last time we called he said that he doesn't know what kind of girl I am since we haven't met in person but from what he can gather through our talks he thinks I'm cool and cute. And he also said he feels insecure sometimes but he won't tell me what he's insecure about. Do you think this could be a reason why he won't let me know his account?
Oh and I don't think he'll cheat on me 'cause he had been cheated on last year by his ex and his dad. But he told me a few weeks ago that he misses having intercourse so much but he said he could contain himself. I'm just so confused right now and I really want to communicate with him but I don't think he'll reply.
We've had some fights in the past but he never gave me the silent treatment before.
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