hi guys just looking for a bit of advise tbh well first of me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years and tbh i dont know what to do anymore
1. i don't trust him
- in the beginning of out relationship he used to gamble and i asked him to stop, so he swore he would stop but then i found out he started again!.
- also i rang him and it said he was on the phone but he denied it and said he wasnt then admitted he was on the phone to a girl!.
- then he started messaging his ex and talking to her (saying he was sleeping but really he was on the phone too her :/.)
- also he hid from me that he met his girl friend for a drink.
- he just constantly lies about stuff.
2. the other day i said to him that he doesn't understand how much i love him and i asked him question like do you ever think about us having a future together and he said he doesn't like to think about it because it scares him and it makes him feel old...
truth is i love him with all my heart but all he does is lie to me he never shows any commitment... i just dont know what to do im so lost! and in such a lonely place!
i dont even know who i am any more! i just really don't know what to do
1. i don't trust him
- in the beginning of out relationship he used to gamble and i asked him to stop, so he swore he would stop but then i found out he started again!.
- also i rang him and it said he was on the phone but he denied it and said he wasnt then admitted he was on the phone to a girl!.
- then he started messaging his ex and talking to her (saying he was sleeping but really he was on the phone too her :/.)
- also he hid from me that he met his girl friend for a drink.
- he just constantly lies about stuff.
2. the other day i said to him that he doesn't understand how much i love him and i asked him question like do you ever think about us having a future together and he said he doesn't like to think about it because it scares him and it makes him feel old...
truth is i love him with all my heart but all he does is lie to me he never shows any commitment... i just dont know what to do im so lost! and in such a lonely place!
i dont even know who i am any more! i just really don't know what to do
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