Hello everyone.
I'm in a distance relationship since one year and about four months now. The first year was really good, I wasn't too sad too often apart from the normal missing issues. After a time of sadness I started to be optimistic and happy again.
Recently however I am caught in a constant low feeling. It feels like my batteries are empty, I don't have the strength to be happy despite the distance and hopeful towards the future.
My boyfriend misses me too, but he can deal better with the whole thing. He doesn't let it get to himself as much as I do.
I don't want to fall into depression because of my relationship! I am crying most of the days and I just can't feel normal and happy like I used to.
In addition I have really bad jealousy problems without any reason (I mean I know he doesn't cheat on me or will do it). Everytime he is out with friends I wish I could join them so much that I start to have silly jealousy thoughts and get really upset (I mean really really upset!).
Did anyone go through the same or a similar time? What can I do to get out of this?
And does anyone have advice for the jealousy? It's destroying our relationship if i don't stop but even the thought of him being with his female friends while I can't see him makes me crazy. I don't know how to stop
I'm in a distance relationship since one year and about four months now. The first year was really good, I wasn't too sad too often apart from the normal missing issues. After a time of sadness I started to be optimistic and happy again.
Recently however I am caught in a constant low feeling. It feels like my batteries are empty, I don't have the strength to be happy despite the distance and hopeful towards the future.
My boyfriend misses me too, but he can deal better with the whole thing. He doesn't let it get to himself as much as I do.
I don't want to fall into depression because of my relationship! I am crying most of the days and I just can't feel normal and happy like I used to.
In addition I have really bad jealousy problems without any reason (I mean I know he doesn't cheat on me or will do it). Everytime he is out with friends I wish I could join them so much that I start to have silly jealousy thoughts and get really upset (I mean really really upset!).
Did anyone go through the same or a similar time? What can I do to get out of this?
And does anyone have advice for the jealousy? It's destroying our relationship if i don't stop but even the thought of him being with his female friends while I can't see him makes me crazy. I don't know how to stop
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