Hello everyone ... just joined here and wanted to get some insight about this.
I've been with my SO for over a year and half now ... in the beginning we would text and talk a lot but now things have started dwindle. I should mention that I am out of college now with a regular 9-5 job and he's finishing up his senior year in mechanical engineering. He says his feelings haven't changed for me and that he still loves me ... but he's really busy with school and school is his priority right now. He says things will be different after he graduates.
I am just wondering how to handle this ... we've already talked about this many times and he finally told me about how busy, stressed, and scared he is and he needs to focus more on school. We text almost everyday - mostly just "good morning, hope you have a good day, i love you" type of thing and then we'll talk maybe 4 days a week - but even then he seems distracted. I usually am the one to have to call him too.
Anyone else have experience(s) like this?
I've been with my SO for over a year and half now ... in the beginning we would text and talk a lot but now things have started dwindle. I should mention that I am out of college now with a regular 9-5 job and he's finishing up his senior year in mechanical engineering. He says his feelings haven't changed for me and that he still loves me ... but he's really busy with school and school is his priority right now. He says things will be different after he graduates.
I am just wondering how to handle this ... we've already talked about this many times and he finally told me about how busy, stressed, and scared he is and he needs to focus more on school. We text almost everyday - mostly just "good morning, hope you have a good day, i love you" type of thing and then we'll talk maybe 4 days a week - but even then he seems distracted. I usually am the one to have to call him too.
Anyone else have experience(s) like this?
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