Hey guys -
I've been with my SO for a little less than 2 years now and of course we went through the honeymoon phase of not having enough of each other .. talking all the time, texting and saying cute things like 'i'm so glad i met you, you've showed me what its like to be truly loved, etc.' Well that stuff has decreased a lot, which I know is usually normal and am not worried about that.
What worries me is that if I do say something like 'i'm excited to see you' or 'i miss you' ... i don't always get the 'i'm excited too or i miss you too'. Also, if I text him something like i did yesterday night: 'PS - i'm so glad your my boyfriend. i hope to someday be able to make you smile as much as you make me smile' .... no response. so then i felt vulnerable and stupid so i followed that text with: 'sorry if i'm a little much sometimes but occasionally i feel the need to tell you things like that lol' (trying to make light of it). Still no response the next day so I made one last ditch effort and said 'my bad about last night. idk why i felt like i needed to say that. i kind of feel stupid' and 'regardless ... i love you. have a good day'
I still haven't gotten a response or any form of communication acknowledging A. he got my texts B. how he feels .... I'm scared that i'm scaring him off or that since he didn't respond to me when I tried to be 'cute/lovey-dovey' that he doesn't feel the same way.
Anyone go through this? Can relate? Offer advice? HELP!
I've been with my SO for a little less than 2 years now and of course we went through the honeymoon phase of not having enough of each other .. talking all the time, texting and saying cute things like 'i'm so glad i met you, you've showed me what its like to be truly loved, etc.' Well that stuff has decreased a lot, which I know is usually normal and am not worried about that.
What worries me is that if I do say something like 'i'm excited to see you' or 'i miss you' ... i don't always get the 'i'm excited too or i miss you too'. Also, if I text him something like i did yesterday night: 'PS - i'm so glad your my boyfriend. i hope to someday be able to make you smile as much as you make me smile' .... no response. so then i felt vulnerable and stupid so i followed that text with: 'sorry if i'm a little much sometimes but occasionally i feel the need to tell you things like that lol' (trying to make light of it). Still no response the next day so I made one last ditch effort and said 'my bad about last night. idk why i felt like i needed to say that. i kind of feel stupid' and 'regardless ... i love you. have a good day'
I still haven't gotten a response or any form of communication acknowledging A. he got my texts B. how he feels .... I'm scared that i'm scaring him off or that since he didn't respond to me when I tried to be 'cute/lovey-dovey' that he doesn't feel the same way.
Anyone go through this? Can relate? Offer advice? HELP!
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