I'm not sure what may be happening, so I guess I'd ask who also passed through this, so here I am...
In first place, I know both me an SO have our jobs, our studies and everything else and I know she gets really busy with all this — I DO understand this and she also understands that I too, have my job and all that.
What bothers me is: we barely get to talk. In the past, we used to talk almost entire nights (and day too, when possible) and we even got to get around this when we started at our jobs and when school started again, but in the last few days we've talked like one or two days a week, with some delay and rarely over an hour or so. Also, I've noticed that sometimes, she would read messages I left for her, but wouldn't reply at all.
We've never really made this "official", we've been good friends in the past and just from some months ago she started to show signs she liked me (even randomly texting me things like "my wonderful, awesome [...]", eventually we also agreed that we both liked each other, and she also said she loves me and that hopes someday to meet me, but I'm so confused if this will really work and if we will still like each other when we meet...
Any advices or tips?
In first place, I know both me an SO have our jobs, our studies and everything else and I know she gets really busy with all this — I DO understand this and she also understands that I too, have my job and all that.
What bothers me is: we barely get to talk. In the past, we used to talk almost entire nights (and day too, when possible) and we even got to get around this when we started at our jobs and when school started again, but in the last few days we've talked like one or two days a week, with some delay and rarely over an hour or so. Also, I've noticed that sometimes, she would read messages I left for her, but wouldn't reply at all.
We've never really made this "official", we've been good friends in the past and just from some months ago she started to show signs she liked me (even randomly texting me things like "my wonderful, awesome [...]", eventually we also agreed that we both liked each other, and she also said she loves me and that hopes someday to meet me, but I'm so confused if this will really work and if we will still like each other when we meet...
Any advices or tips?
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