Hello..
I'm not really used to writing in forums but I need advice from people that know what it's like to be in a LDR..
So I've been together with my bf for 6 months, we started talking almost a year ago and met months later, and from that point we got romantically involved.. but then our problems also started.. We are both sensitive and insecure, and we fight quite alot because of this. Recently we have gotten into a bad period of arguments. My problem now is that I am doubting his love, and he gets really mad at me for it and starts screaming at me and wants me to leave him be. He tells me that after everything I shouldn't be doubting, he swears at me and calls me things.. and I don't quite understand why he reacts this way and it makes me feel even more like he doesn't love me because why can't he stand me this much? It's not just this, if I feel bad about myself it feels like he gets mad too.. or eventually it ends up in an argument. I just wish he could be a bit.. softer to me about it, and he tells me that he will but then he gets mad when it happens and he starts being aggressive. It scares me and makes me feel much worse. I don't really know what to do about this.. I feel bad so often because of our relationship and I want to change things but I don't know how.. I feel like he have stopped loving me and he gets mad because he knows it's true.. Am I being paranoid.. or is it coming to an end? If anyone out there have been through something similar, please help..
I'm not really used to writing in forums but I need advice from people that know what it's like to be in a LDR..
So I've been together with my bf for 6 months, we started talking almost a year ago and met months later, and from that point we got romantically involved.. but then our problems also started.. We are both sensitive and insecure, and we fight quite alot because of this. Recently we have gotten into a bad period of arguments. My problem now is that I am doubting his love, and he gets really mad at me for it and starts screaming at me and wants me to leave him be. He tells me that after everything I shouldn't be doubting, he swears at me and calls me things.. and I don't quite understand why he reacts this way and it makes me feel even more like he doesn't love me because why can't he stand me this much? It's not just this, if I feel bad about myself it feels like he gets mad too.. or eventually it ends up in an argument. I just wish he could be a bit.. softer to me about it, and he tells me that he will but then he gets mad when it happens and he starts being aggressive. It scares me and makes me feel much worse. I don't really know what to do about this.. I feel bad so often because of our relationship and I want to change things but I don't know how.. I feel like he have stopped loving me and he gets mad because he knows it's true.. Am I being paranoid.. or is it coming to an end? If anyone out there have been through something similar, please help..
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