Being ignored by her

[RachelAnne]

I have to agree with Hollandia...if you're in love with someone, you should make an effort to talk to them because you WANT to.

[silvermoonfairy3]

I have to agree with Hollandia...if you're in love with someone, you should make an effort to talk to them because you WANT to.

I agree with this as well.

Good news, bad news, no news, when it comes down it, your partner should be the person you want to talk to.

[nemolove_22]

I'm going through as well - only I have no idea what was going on as he just seemed to drop off the face of the Earth with no responses at all to anything that I send him on any of the mediums that we use to communicate (quite a few). It's been almost a week with no contact when I usually hear from him at least once or twice a day. So I know how you feel. I hope that you hear from her soon. :]

[Turtl]

Well, thanks everyone. I ended up breaking it off due to some things in the past, not being her first choice, and the fact that she has not said a single thing for over a week now.

[LadyDaemon]

I'm sorry Turtl. I know it has to be hard for you, but it will get better with time. Please feel free to stick around the forums and talk with us if you like. There are members who stay even post break up just for the support. It could be good for you. If you ever need to talk then my PM box is always open. Good luck!

[digitalfever]

Well I looked back at my messages and the last one she saw was "I was expecting a little more than this but whatever... lol" in regards to her talking to me more when
she was at camp. Maybe that was the straw that broke the camels back but I thought that she would ignore me, not everyone. I've also decided not to message anyone
close to or related to her just because it's like an invasion of privacy and because of what everyone else has been saying. I think I'd only consider that if she's gone for a pretty
long period of time.

I'm sure that I want to be with her even if this does happen. It sucks but I see where she's coming from. The part that kills me is not knowing if she's alright. If we were physically
together then at least I would know other people around and actually see her as well.

Unfortunately now I have three days off from work so I'll need to find something to keep myself occupied

I don't think you should be messaging anyone that's close to her even if she's been gone for a long period of time. I know this is harsh BUT she is entitled to not only privacy but alone time. I can understand that you may be "more clingy" but that really has everything to do with you and nothing to do with her.

I think you should also consider how your behaviour can have a negative affect - the more you grasp and cling to something the more that object, person or whatever it may be will try to pull away. If you continue to cling to your girlfriend she may become overwhelmed and back off. It's understandable.

[RachelAnne]

I'm sorry to hear that Be good to yourself.

[Turtl]

Yea, it was understandable to an extent but that does not mean you ignore someone for a week and a half without saying anything. She messaged me this morning saying she was too busy with work. One thing that 95% of people on here will agree on is that if someone loves you then they will make time for you. Long story short she never made time for me and it turned out she still had her mind set on someone else. I'll post my story tomorrow. Hopefully it'll save at least one person from screwing up as bad as I did.