So me and my SO have been talking since January. It wasn't until April that we decided we had feelings for each other and we wanted to take it to the next step. He lives in Tennessee, but travels for work. Meaning he is on the road for months at a time without seeing his family or friends. He works 3 or 4 months in a row then takes a month off. Well, he was off for the month of July so he came to visit me for the first time! It was great, he got along so well with my family and friends, it was wonderful. He was here for 10 days.
He told me when we first started talking that when he goes home to see his family and friends, he barely texts anyone. He likes to spend that time with them because he is away for so long. He even told me that his ex girlfriend HATED it when he would go home because she barely heard from him.
Well, he headed home to Tennessee Friday night because he is spending his last week off at home. He drove his truck up here, so it's about a 21 hour drive back. About 2 hours into his drive he texted me that he loved me and we talked for a little. Then, he called me Saturday morning to let me know where he was and stuff and everything seemed normal. He finally got home Sunday and I didn't hear from him at all. Monday he texted me a couple times, just one word texts and it bothered me a tiny bit but I was just thankful that he was texting me at all. Last night, I sent him a text that said "I'm headed to bed. Just wanted to say goodnight!" and he never even responded. The thing that really bothers me is that he was on Twitter and responding to my friends' tweets, which is so bizarre to me. He became friends with them while he was up here, but it's like he is communicating with them more than his own girlfriend at this point?
I don't know. The last thing I want to do is text him and sound needy or psycho. He goes back to work on Monday and I am really interested to see what it will be like. He told me he had tons of fun with me and wants to come back in November when he is off from work again. I don't think he is seeing anyone else...I just don't know if he is into me anymore and it's killing me. Please if I am completely blowing this out of proportion, tell me. My mind is just racing at this point.
Any input on this would be greatly appreciated. I am sorry if this post is jumbled up and doesn't make sense but I am desperate for some advice. None of my friends are in LDRs and they can't really offer any insight.
He told me when we first started talking that when he goes home to see his family and friends, he barely texts anyone. He likes to spend that time with them because he is away for so long. He even told me that his ex girlfriend HATED it when he would go home because she barely heard from him.
Well, he headed home to Tennessee Friday night because he is spending his last week off at home. He drove his truck up here, so it's about a 21 hour drive back. About 2 hours into his drive he texted me that he loved me and we talked for a little. Then, he called me Saturday morning to let me know where he was and stuff and everything seemed normal. He finally got home Sunday and I didn't hear from him at all. Monday he texted me a couple times, just one word texts and it bothered me a tiny bit but I was just thankful that he was texting me at all. Last night, I sent him a text that said "I'm headed to bed. Just wanted to say goodnight!" and he never even responded. The thing that really bothers me is that he was on Twitter and responding to my friends' tweets, which is so bizarre to me. He became friends with them while he was up here, but it's like he is communicating with them more than his own girlfriend at this point?
I don't know. The last thing I want to do is text him and sound needy or psycho. He goes back to work on Monday and I am really interested to see what it will be like. He told me he had tons of fun with me and wants to come back in November when he is off from work again. I don't think he is seeing anyone else...I just don't know if he is into me anymore and it's killing me. Please if I am completely blowing this out of proportion, tell me. My mind is just racing at this point.
Any input on this would be greatly appreciated. I am sorry if this post is jumbled up and doesn't make sense but I am desperate for some advice. None of my friends are in LDRs and they can't really offer any insight.
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