I need help :( please

[LDR_Girl]

I know I might sound completely insane about this, but it's worrying and annoying me so much to a point that I can't sleep at night, and wake up early because of it, it's like he doesn't give a shit and that is pissing me off.

You don't sound insane at all - that's exactly how I'd be feeling. You have already told him this behaviour makes you unhappy - so he shouldn't be doing it. Unless he has a damn good excuse I'd be really upset at him right now. Keep posting on here, you need to vent or you *will* go crazy. Sympathy to you.

[Ozzigirl]

You don't sound insane at all - that's exactly how I'd be feeling. You have already told him this behaviour makes you unhappy - so he shouldn't be doing it. Unless he has a damn good excuse I'd be really upset at him right now. Keep posting on here, you need to vent or you *will* go crazy. Sympathy to you.

Thx I am really upset! talking to a dozen people about it know. like wtf right, I cannot read his brain and we had this convo before hence it's making me even more upset!

[paulawriteslove]

If you want to talk to your boyfriend, then text him first He could be busy or preoccupied at the moment and doesn't have time to text you. But if he see's a message from you then he has to respond. It shouldn't matter who texts first, but that you two are talking! Best of luck

[MTK]

In my opinion, if you have already discussed this with him before and he hasn't changed his pattern it is time to have another conversation about it and really make a point of stressing how important this is to you.
We're here for you, no need to be freaking out when you can go here and vent and get all those worries of your chest.
I guess the only thing you can do now that you have contacted him is to play the waiting game, and not flood him with messages as that might a tad off putting.

[Silviar]

First off Breathe. I know this feeling...oh goodness I read and overanalyze waaaayyy too much. I always think I know what is going on and usually I assume the worst.

Maybe he is just really busy..and sometimes guys just forget..just be sure that you talk to him the next time you talk and tell him you were worried...and maybe just open the lines of communication.
I am sure things will be fine...just hold tight...

Completely agree with Karringtyn here. Have faith in your relationship's strength and your love. And I would just text him and ask him what's going on. It could be any number of things, including his phone going wonky. Technology is far from perfect, my dear.

It'll work out, no worries!

[Ozzigirl]

Hmm, thx girls But I don't think that he forgot to text me or that his phone broke. I think he's just thinking about stuff which he did a couple of weeks back and didn't tell me about it. Though if I already told him that he should tell me something like this, do I seriously tell him again. It's annoying and not fair towards me. I'm just worried and scared of what he might think and all and would just wish that he would text me back.

So your advice is to just wait till he'll reply?

Oh and also I'm making a video for him to tell him some stuff so then he can actually see and hear me and I think that will give him a kick or something. Last time I got annoyed at something I accidently posted what I wanted to message my bf to my bbf's comment and he read it. And after he had read it he talked to me like always and said he was sorry and stuff. Because when I commented on my friends commented I told how how mcuh it pissed me off that he didn't reply and I swear like a couple of minutes later he texted me. I was like woah kayy.. but it worked, although it wasn't my intention for him to read that :P

[Ozzigirl]

I just feel so bad right now. Like I feel like crying, I don't want to be patient anymore, I finally want him to talk to me again. It's making me all nervous and shaky and I just want to break down and cry especially after I just smelt his scent that he left me in form of his body spray here. I'm just so sad and want him with me right now. And I don't want to feel bad anymore, I just want him with me and want him to talk to me and all. Just feel like it's taking all of my energy, I just feel weak and want him with me now and I don't know what to do, I'm worried and scared..

[Ozzigirl]

We just talked then for about 1 hour. Thx god he texted me, I feel much better now that we have talked again Turned out he was sick the last few days.. so nothing to be upset for. Feeling relieved now Thx for all your help and advice girls, you're great!

[maielle]

Good! I wrote you a long reply but deleted it now since you just wrote about the chat.

I'm glad everything is going well again!

[Ozzigirl]

Yes! Thx so much anyway

[Talent_2]

Unfortunately sometimes men just forget....and dont even realise theyve done something wrong. My SO said hed text me when he got home so i was expecting the text around 7.15 one night and by about 9 a clock i was really worried (i know the time scale is majorly difference but just an example) i finally gave in and text him and got the response oops sorry thought id text you and another time he just forgot :0 and couldnt understand why i was so upset.

Sometimes men no matter how committed or in love with u they are they just dont 'feel' (for want of a better word) as intensely as women do.

Note to men reading this: I understand this does not mean all men just an observation ive made about some of the men ive met (maybe i just have bad taste in men lol)

[Ozzigirl]

Unfortunately sometimes men just forget....and dont even realise theyve done something wrong. My SO said hed text me when he got home so i was expecting the text around 7.15 one night and by about 9 a clock i was really worried (i know the time scale is majorly difference but just an example) i finally gave in and text him and got the response oops sorry thought id text you and another time he just forgot :0 and couldnt understand why i was so upset.

Sometimes men no matter how committed or in love with u they are they just dont 'feel' (for want of a better word) as intensely as women do.

Note to men reading this: I understand this does not mean all men just an observation ive made about some of the men ive met (maybe i just have bad taste in men lol)

Yeah, I know exactly what you're talking about. When my bf and me were still both in Sydney, he always came over my house at night, and this one night he said he'd be at my house at around 7pm, ok. So I waited and waited but he didn't come and it got past 8pm, so I kinda got worried and texted him but he just didn't reply then I called him like a 100 times on his phone coz I thought he got involved in an accident or so and he still didn't answer his phone. The at like 8.45 he finally texted me telling me that he accidently had fallen alseep and forgotten the time and then he was over at like 9.15. Far out, that made me so worried and yeah, don't know but men ( maybe not all of them) don't always understand why we worry,care so much about them and how some thing they do upset us when it's not a big deal for them.

Men and women are just so different sometimes:P And! Women are wayy more emotional then men!

[noodle]

Yea I think men are worse at forgettin stuff xD
As well what I noticed with my SO (I had the same situation as you as well a few times) that when he says he will get back in an hour but then has other stuff to do and doesnt get on for 3-4hrs he kinda doesnt message me and is like "hey sorry i have stuff to do it'll take longer", but once the same thing happens to me he messages me on facebook like "hey im on... i miss you..."
And Im just thinkin like, where here you have it now you know how it feels when you're not there and Im worried sick and miss you like crazy xD
But we dont do it on purpose so its ok.
Plus I think at times like these you notice how much you really care about each other, cause you wouldnt miss the other one or worry if you wouldnt love your SO so much, you know what I mean?
Im glad everythin is good for you again, I know how hard it is especially cause of the time difference.

[Ozzigirl]

Yea I think men are worse at forgettin stuff xD
As well what I noticed with my SO (I had the same situation as you as well a few times) that when he says he will get back in an hour but then has other stuff to do and doesnt get on for 3-4hrs he kinda doesnt message me and is like "hey sorry i have stuff to do it'll take longer", but once the same thing happens to me he messages me on facebook like "hey im on... i miss you..."
And Im just thinkin like, where here you have it now you know how it feels when you're not there and Im worried sick and miss you like crazy xD
But we dont do it on purpose so its ok.
Plus I think at times like these you notice how much you really care about each other, cause you wouldnt miss the other one or worry if you wouldnt love your SO so much, you know what I mean?
Im glad everythin is good for you again, I know how hard it is especially cause of the time difference.

Exactly!! It's the same with my bf and me as well! Like when he doesn't text back or so and I worry he can't understand why that's so bad and such, but whne I'm a bit busy and don't text back instantly or not within the next hour he texts me and yeah says exactly what your bf says as well, and then he thinks that I have forgotten him or something like that, which on the other hand is cute as well Yeah, in a LDR you realise how much you really care for each other and how much you love each other and I'm sure it strengthens the bond between a couple, coz I'm sure that LDR's make a couple's relationship stronger, coz if they can make the distance for a while, what can really stop them? that's what I think and if you're able to survive a LDR I think it's sign of true love

Yeah, I'm happy, too Missed talking to him! And yeah 8 hrs time difference, 10 in winter:P

[noodle]

Yeah, in a LDR you realise how much you really care for each other and how much you love each other and I'm sure it strengthens the bond between a couple, coz I'm sure that LDR's make a couple's relationship stronger, coz if they can make the distance for a while, what can really stop them? that's what I think and if you're able to survive a LDR I think it's sign of true love

Yeah, I'm happy, too Missed talking to him! And yeah 8 hrs time difference, 10 in winter:P

I agree with this so much!!